If It’s 'Their' Fault, Who Are 'They'?

If It’s 'Their' Fault, Who Are 'They'?

The "they" you are referring to is yourself, your family, your peers, and the people surrounding you.
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Over the weekend I watched a Netflix documentary called “Audrie and Daisy.”

If you haven’t seen it or even heard about it, you should take the time to watch it. For me, the documentary showed more of the investigation process for sexual assaults than other documentaries about sexual assault that I have watched previously.

The documentary is about two girls that get sexually assaulted by boys who they considered friends in high school. These girls end up getting trolled online by their peers and the communities they have lived in for their entire life.

In a specific part of the documentary, a cop that is investigating one of the girls sexual assault talks about how if you don’t have enough evidence the charges have to be dropped. He talked about how he said she said stories are not good enough and nothing was pointing to that girl being raped by the guys she said she was raped by.

The part that got me the most about him talking was how he blamed it on society saying that “that’s just the way society is”. And by him saying that it got me thinking about what people think society is and what society does.

Society doesn’t choose whose hot and who’s not.

Society doesn’t choose how much money you need to succeed.

Society doesn’t make the laws.

We as people choose all those things. We as people are society.

Society isn’t an underground government service that chooses how things go in the world.

Society isn’t a group of people that have been specially picked around the world to choose what happens in the world.

Society isn’t a rule book we have to follow. Nowhere does it say that you have to do this because society is that way.

Stop blaming things on society. Society is not an excuse for you to use.

Let me tell you what society is.

Society is us, we choose who’s hot and who’s not. We choose what the laws are. We choose everything.

We talk about wanting to change the society and then we blame things on society. If we want to change something then start as an individual or a group of people to change it.

Society can change by one person. There is no one to tell you, “you can’t change society because I am society and I chose what happens.”

If you don’t like the way something is in the world. Stop blaming it on society. Because society is the nation and the nation is the people living in it which is you and your friends and your family and the people surrounding you. We make everything happen in the world. If we don’t like something then we have to change it.

If we change things then the society will be different and get better. We have to change things for our anger of how society works will change.

The “they” you are referring to while blaming society for your problems is you and the many other people in this nation.

Cover Image Credit: Attillio Pirino

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It's been a long known fact that Barack Obama was one of the sexiest presidents of all time. I mean who couldn't fall in love with those dreamy eyes, that gorgeous smile and his killer personality with a height to match? Let's just say 44 is still making me feel some type of way.

Here are 10 times President Obama was Daddy AF.

1. When he appeared on the Ellen show.


2. When he "Slow Jammed the News" on the Tonight Show.

3. Whenever he said "south side of Chicago".


4. Every time he danced.


5. When he listened to music.


6. When he wore Ray Bans.


7. When he made bromances great again.


8. When he was cool with making fun of himself.


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Just the other day I glanced down at my phone and my eyes fixated on an alert that read: "School shooting takes place at high school in Florida." My head began to spin, yet I wasn't surprised. The lack of gun control laws in America manifested into the form of another mass shooting. No matter where you lie on the political spectrum, and whether you're a pacifist or not, it shouldn't matter, because kids died. The fact that kids are no longer safe at school should be blatantly alarming.

February 14th, a day of giving love and receiving love was sans love this year for many students in Florida. At the moment, a recorded seventeen lives were taken on this solemn day in Parkland, FL. To be honest, it's quite ironic that an event so horrific could take place on a holiday created for one sole purpose: to love. Schools are a safe place for kids, a learning environment where students can converse about the joys and struggles of growing up in today's world. Schools were created to comfortably nurture kids into functional human beings; however, constant mass shootings prevent learning and promote fear.

America should not be in a perpetual state of mourning, and we can not let mass shootings become a normalized reoccurrence. Not only are stricter gun control laws a good idea, but they fall under the category of a desperate necessity. The saddest and most preposterous statistic is the fact that there has been a total of 18 mass shootings in 2018 thus far. There is absolutely no justification for mass shootings, and the perception that mental illness is the exclusive cause of mass shootings needs to be discarded. Is mental illness a problem in America? Yes. Is it a main cause for mass shootings? No. Easy access to guns and a lack of gun control laws are equal contributing factors to the outrageous statistic America has produced in regard to the obscene number of mass shootings. Additionally, shame on all the politicians who are accepting donations from the NRA, and shame on congress for not making any policy changes in respect to the accessibility of guns. As a nation, we are failing and people are dying. I don't know about you, but I'm sick of hearing about a new shooting every time I turn on the news.


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