Are you sorry?
I'm not.
There have been many times in my life where I should’ve been sorry and I haven’t. Plenty of times where I should’ve apologized and I didn’t.
I know that now. I know I should’ve said I’m sorry to my brother when I made fun of him. Or apologized to my mom when I talked back to her.
I shouldn’t have apologized to you.
What do I have to be sorry for? Good question.
It’s really easy to blame yourself for someone else’s mistake. Your mind puts so much pressure on yourself to be perfect, therefore it is that much easier to be mad at yourself for someone else’s actions.
It’s not your fault.
You did nothing wrong.
Don’t be mad at yourself because of him.
He loved you for you. He left you for himself.
Don’t be upset. I know it is so easy to wallow in the corner and cry until your eyes are dry. Some days that is good. We all need those harsh cries sometimes. But, don’t cry because you think it’s your fault. Be upset because you don’t understand how a guy could just walk away from someone so awesome like yourself.
There are bad people in the world. Some worse than others, and some that could be a little better. Don’t be mad at yourself because he did something stupid. Don’t blame yourself because he told you he loved you one day and broke up with you the next.
Take a second and think about your situation. Now think about the number of girls currently going through that same situation. I don’t know about you, but I think it would be great to have one big group message with every girl that feels this way (talk about using up data). Bottom line is, you’re not alone. This happens every day. Unfortunately, it is a part of life. Don’t be down on yourself because that one guy broke your heart and left you without any closure. It is frustrating, and it is confusing, and a lot of the time it doesn’t make any sense. But stop being sorry for someone else’s mistake.
You are beautiful. You are important. You are a good person. Don’t let any guy tell you otherwise.