To the girl that always say "It's ok,"
It's not, and it doesn't have to be, even when they say I'm sorry.
Forgiveness is crucial in life. None of us could make it a day without it. None of us would ever amount to anything without grace and mercy, and we know because we are given it daily, it's our job to share it with others. Never stop doing that- offering forgiveness we all need- but stop saying "it's ok" when it's not. It doesn't have to be.
The last time I checked, God's response to our sins has never been "It's ok." That's not to say he doesn't and won't forgive us every time. He does, and he will always, but he never tells us that what we did is okay, because then it'd be okay for us to keep doing it again and again.
God doesn't say "it's ok" because it's not. He wants us to know when we hurt Him and that we shouldn't do that again. He forgives us and lets us know it's going to be okay IF we live our lives differently and turn away from those things.
So it's more than okay to forgive them, you should. It's also okay to tell them you're hurting, you should. But it's okay not to say "it's okay" because as long as you continue to hurt and get hurt in the same way, it's not okay.
Forgiveness says it's going to be okay, but it's okay not to be okay.