A real friendship is known each other's flaws and imperfections and still stick together no matter what. It is supporting each other, and always bring out the best in each other.

Friendship is not betrayal. It is neither revealing the secrets after a fight nor reproaching each other during the bad times for what has done during the good times.

Friendship is a sacred word that seems to lose its meaning and importance in this wicked world.

Friendship is also a type of relationship between two people who care about each other. No storm should be able to destroy a real friendship. It is the job of the friends to hold each other tight, so they can go through the catastrophic moment and survive it. Friends betray other friends every day due to material interests. For example, a friend sets another friend up for Money or any additional advantage. They contribute to their friend's crime scene. It is nothing other than the act of jealousy. Jealousy is a feeling of insecurity or lack of satisfaction. Jealousy seems to be the top reason for having such an impious world because people never satisfied with what they have, so they hate on others for having something they do not have. Furthermore, jealousy has an endless reason behind its result.

Nowadays, due to all the weird events that are going on between friends, having a real friendship with someone is really rare. Since there have been so many situations going on including crime scene that cause everyone to beware of anyone around them. We always think that everyone is the same. However, I have an excellent example of true friendship. I know two fabulous ladies who have been known to best friends for the past two years; they give everyone a taste of finding a best friend even if you have been betrayed before.

Those ladies can also identify as sisters or even twins. They look alike. They have the same personalities. I have the privilege to watch them go through thick and thin together. One of my favorite parts is when they get mad at each other. WELL, let me tell you why it is my favorite. When they get mad at each other, I usually know and ask them to stop the “nonsense” and refresh their friendship; they both would tell me “heck no, I’m done with her; she can go ahead and have a better friend.” Did I buy it? No! I am so used to them now that I will just laugh and say “okay just practice your weight-watchers type of diet until you get skinny.”

The reason I call it a diet is because every time they are mad at each other; they do not eat. Nothing is interesting. Others' words do not make any sense. Life is automatically meaningful. Mostly, they are still watching over each other. They even pay attention to either the other post another friend or not. I feel more than honored to look the beauty of their friendship and understand how meaningful this word is when all the conditions are applied.

My most favorite part of their stories is when they both say they are done, and they do not want to talk to each other, yet one will ask me if I speak to the other and ask about how she is doing. When it comes to the point where they cannot pretend to be okay anymore, they will always find a way to talk.

The primary key that holds a friendship or any other type of relationship is the habit. Habit is a tendency that is being practiced regularly which is hard to get rid of. The main point to always remember in a friendship is the commitment that was made to each other which shall be kept regardless of the situation or what life brings later in life.

After all the experiences witnessing Kate and Jee friendship, I questioned Kate about the secret key, to not say magical key, holding this friendship;

She told me:

"It is nothing but the habit we give each other. We spoil each other to a point we cannot even survive a week without talking. We keep our friendship between us two."

Kate's advice to anyone within a friendship is to:

"Have respect, have trust, and have confidence in each other. Do not have a friendship with someone you doubt about. Once you start doubting about someone, she is no longer your friend. Lastly, A friendship is ALWAYS between TWO people, NOT THREE or any other numbers, but TWO."

One thing that catches my attention is the way they respect the commitment they made. My suggestion to them and you who are reading this is to always recognize any promise that you set in life so you can be successful in everything you do.

Kate and Jee hope to grow old together and have a stronger bond as they continue to grow up.

After all, I believe that you can have an idea of my reason to chose such a title. Well, thank you for learning with me The Force of Habit.