Summer is rolling around the corner before we can even blink our eyes and bat our lashes. Speaking of, you know what that means…single summer? Yes, it’s a thing. It has a hashtag and everything all over social media. I’m not the type to be so anti-relationship just because the thermometer has reached sweltering heights, but who am I? But anyway, I'm talking about the infamous summer fling!

We’ve all had our brush with a summer fling. If you haven’t had an opportunity to experience the whirlwind of a “summer romance,” do it at some point before you’re old and gray. Because hey, as they say, “you’re only young once.”

Now, believe me and others that have had a summer fling. Know that it is most likely nothing serious and won’t be your forever love. Sorry to burst your bubble, but a sun-kissed glow, bright until 9 p.m. sky and endless adventure isn’t the prime condition to form a budding romance. Not saying it can’t happen, because I’m sure many people have had long-term relationships out of people they met during the summer months, but guard your heart somewhat and know that chances are it won’t last much once your tan fades.

Just because your summer fling is short-lived doesn’t mean that it wasn’t meaningful or worth it. Bonfires on the beach, watching the sun rise or day trips across the state are memories that you should cherish for a lifetime. Just because you don’t do it with a person you’ve been committed to for seven years, doesn’t mean it isn’t fun! Soak up the sun and the memories while they last.

We all know the cliche movie or book scenario. A young and impressionable girl is at her beach house. She goes to the local boardwalk ice cream stand and she meets a dreamy guy with sandy hair, green eyes and broad shoulders. Then in this fairytale romance, they end up getting married.

OK, so maybe I’m being silly, but you catch my drift. Take a summer fling for what it is. Have fun while it lasts. Cherish the memories you make. Don’t be afraid to have fun and let loose. Don’t have any expectations; because after all, low expectations leads to low disappointment. I know it’s easier said than done, but try not to get too attached. Make smart decisions, but also don’t regret anything. You’re only young once. Go ahead, allow yourself to have a summer fling, because maybe, just maybe, you’ll learn something about yourself in the process!