Interaction with the opposite sex is hard. It can be hard to interpret the opposite sex's actions and words. In my experience, it is easier to learn what not to do than what to do. The only advice I have heard about dating that doesn't have the word don't in front of it is, "Be yourself!" Most dating advice has the word don't in front of it, which gives dating a negative name. All the advice given about dating can make it seem scarier than it actually is. I hope this article inspires you to give positive dating advice.'

Here are a few things I have heard over the years.

1. "Don't eat a big meal."

This usually applies to girls on a date. Society has taught us that on a date we should eat daintily and usually eat salads. I went on a date once and I was taking small bites, as soon as my date went to the bathroom, I engulfed my food! Eat what you want on a date and eat like you normally eat!

2. "Don't try too hard."

People tell you to put in an effort on a date, but not to try too hard. I can understand that if trying to hard is stopping you from being you, but if you are that kind of person who tries hard for everything then do it! If Paris Geller can be herself and have three boyfriends, then why can't you?

3. "Don't talk about your ex."

This one is actually good advice. It's almost always wise to not talk about exes on a date. If the other person asks about your dating history then it's best to keep your response short, simple, and to the point!

4. "Don't talk about politics."

This advice depends on the person. If you are really passionate about politics almost to the point that it is a part of you, then go for it! If you are that kind of person, it's better the person finds out when you are dating not after you are married.

5. "Don't pay."

This is another "rule" that usually applies to girls. Society has told women that the men must always pay for the date whether it is dinner, a movie, or another outing. It's the 21st Century, pay how you and your partner want to pay!