A Thank You To My Grandpa For The Dancing Lessons

A Thank You To My Grandpa For The Dancing Lessons

You taught me so much in our relatively short time together. I will forever be grateful for your love.

Dear Poptart,

It's been four years now since we've laughed together, spent the mornings drinking hot tea, or Friday evenings dancing in your apartment living room. I miss you more than words can possibly describe.

The more I grow up, the more I realize all of the important things that you taught me from a young age. You taught me to stand up for myself, and to be happy with who I am. You gave me an appreciation for music--good music like Frank Sinatra and Dean Martin. You gave me a love for coffee (even though I wasn't supposed to have any), cooking, and old movies.

I sometimes come to see you and read you poetry. I hope you know how badly I wish you were here to see the young woman I've become. I wish you could have seen me perform my senior year of high school, seen me, graduate, heard the poetry I finally started sharing--you always said I was good at writing.

I hope you know how badly I've wanted to make you proud. I'm no longer the little girl that constantly left her lunchbox or clarinet at home, calling her grandpa to come bring it to her. Although sometimes I still am forgetful, I think I'm a tad more responsible and a lot of that is because of you.

I miss cooking spaghetti with you, helping out at Knights of Columbus breakfasts, drinking hot tea, going out to eat, watching movies, and dancing. I miss your stories most of all. I know we would all get frustrated hearing the same stories over and over again but what I would give up to hear one of those stories again.

I learned so much from your stories and because of them, I found you again a couple of years after your passing on an island in the middle of the ocean. I met a man who grew up with you and it reminded how small this world is and how close you are even though I don't see you anymore.

I hope you know how much I love you. You were my second parent for a long time and I will forever be grateful for the love and care you showed me for so long. Not everyone is lucky enough to grow up with their grandparents right there, and I can tell you they are missing out. I hope you're still dancing. I love you.


Your granddaughter

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A Thank You To My Boyfriend's Family

Because you are so important to him, you are important to me.

This one isn't easy to sit down and write because nothing I could say would do all of you justice in the way that I would hope I could. These are just words, but I hope that I am able to always show my thank you to you by treating him like the prince he is.

I can replay the moment of meeting each and every one of you all over and over in my head like it was yesterday. I was so extremely nervous every single time and I was trying to gather all the "right" things to say that would leave a good, first-lasting impression and that at the end of the day, you all would like me.

I think one of the most important basis and hopes in my relationship is that my significant other's family likes who I am. This is so important to me because whatever is important to him is equally important to me and your thoughts of me are crucial to our relationship.

The second I walked in the door, I was overwhelmed—overwhelmed with such a love. I had no idea at that point in time just how much you would all mean to me and how thankful I am for all of you!

Thank you for constantly making me laugh and feel at home.

Whenever I'm coming over for a family gathering or just to hang out, I know right off that I am walking into a world of laughter and good times are right beside that. You are all so entertaining and always have a good story to tell me. I can't name one time where I didn't feel like I was home.

And I appreciate the sweet, embarrassing photos and stories about my boyfriend that you all share with me! Even if it is by a photo, I have a glimpse of what his life has always been like thanks to each and every one of you individually.

Thank you for sharing your special moments in life with me.

You don't ever have to, but you invite me anyway. Whether it's just a family gathering, a birthday, or a holiday, I am thankful to have spent those times celebrating these moments in life alongside such amazing people. It's humbling and heartwarming to be a part of memories so unforgettable that you all share and that you have welcomed me to be a part of. They are days that I will never forget and have a place in my heart forever.

Thank you for always being there for him.

Since we have started dating, I have watched the way that you guys love him. I have watched the individual relationships and moments that you share with him make a difference in who he is. I have seen you all love and support him, no matter what he was doing.

With everything that comes along in life, this has been a simple reminder of an unconditional, loving, sacrificing family that is also the best support system. You are not only impacting him, but me, too.

Thank you for welcoming me in like your own.

Whenever you have to brave up and meet your significant other's family, I can say, for myself, that I didn't know what to expect. As I'm sure, none of you did when meeting me. Today, I catch myself wondering why I even worried in the first place. You all have welcomed me in your own ways and made me feel right at home. It is not always easy to do that with just anyone, but you have all taken the time to get to know me. And now I know that if I ever needed anything, I can call one of you.

Thank you for letting me date him.

I am most thankful for this. Thank you for sharing him with me and giving me a chance to show you all how important he is to me. I never thought that I would luck out and meet someone as special, kind, and wonderful as he is, but I did.

You have supported our relationship, given me a chance to love him, and welcomed me to new adventures in love and family. I have the upmost gratitude for each of you. You are the most wonderful, welcoming, and loving family. I am overjoyed to be able to experience just a glimpse of this life with him and with all of you.

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9 Reasons Living With Your Grandparents Is Actually The Best Thing Ever

Saw it. Liked it. Told Papa. Got it!


Blessings in disguise are a real thing. When I was nine my mother died and my father was no longer a part of my life. Thankfully I was blessed with two of the best grandparents on this earth who were willing to adopt me. Life isn't always rainbows and butterflies, but when you live with your grandparents things can never be THAT bad.

1. They love you unconditionally

No matter if you get a failing grade on a test, get a speeding ticket, or raise your voice at them as you stomp off to your room they always forgive you and continue to love you endlessly.

2. They spoil you 24/7

It's no secret that grandparents are your main go to when you need a little extra cash, full access to a filled pantry, or just a little extra tender loving care that you can't get anywhere else.

3. They are always down for a spontaneous road trip

Whether it be a day trip to the beach or mountains or even just a day full of shopping, 99% of the time its a yes from them.

4. You get to be the guinea pig for new recipes

I cant tell you how many recipes I see my grandma sharing on Facebook, but I can tell you its enough to never miss a meal for the rest of my life. Whether it be a crazy new dessert or just a new chicken casserole for dinner, the words "I'm hungry" will rarely ever come out of my mouth.

5. Did I mention you're spoiled rotten

Fortunately, I never had to venture too far to become the spoiled child that I am because I've basically lived with my grandparents my whole life even before they adopted me. I got a brand new Camaro at 14 years old, I get sixty dollars a week for doing absolutely nothing, my clothes are washed, my phone bill is paid for, I get free home-cooked meals, and my college tuition will mostly be taken care of. It just doesn't get much better than this.

6. They care more than anyone else in your life

Everyday after school my grandparents asked me how my day was. They always wanted to know how a test or quiz went, and if the answer was bad they were just happy knowing I did my best. I have to text my grandma when I arrive and leave a place. Although I constantly complain about this, I know deep down she just wants to know I'm safe.

7. You have an everlasting bond with them

The relationship between a grandchild and a grandparent is something words cannot describe. You are apart of them and they are apart of you forever and always.

8. They give the best advice

Whenever you're getting a lecture from your parents or just about anyone you usually sit there consumed with boredom and lack of interest in what they are telling you. However, when your grandparents in particular give you advice and try to teach you right from wrong we tend to listen to what they are saying. They have been on this earth long enough to have learned from the mistakes they have made so they always give the best advice.

9. They play an active roll in your life

While back in the old days grandparents were just seen as old people that sat in rocking chairs on the front porch all day long, today so many grandparents are super involved in their grandchildren's life. Especially because I live with mine, they never miss any type of school/sporting event and are always around for special celebrations.

Unfortunately my grandfather is no longer with me, but my grandmother has taken on every possible role imaginable to fill the spaces left behind by our lost loved ones. Without my grandparents I would not be as successful as I am today nor would I have had the strength to continue on with life. My grandma is my entire life and I want nothing more in this world than to make her happy and repay her for all she has given me. Living with my grandparents has truly been a life changing event for me.

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