A Thank You To My Brothers

A Thank You To My Brothers

I used to think it was silly when people said that their sisters and brothers were one the best things that ever happened to them in college, but they're right.

Its the time to be thankful--and if you would have asked me six months ago what was on my list of what I was thankful for it would've been family, friends, my dog, and Netflix. But I've been given the amazing gift of my fraternity brothers and I can't thank them enough for what they've done for me.

There are the times that I am thankful for them for listening to me. Whether that be when I was standing up in front of them all for the first time, explaining a hard time of my life and why I was where I was now. When it was when I needed friends and thats what APO had given me. When I wanted a leadership position and they heard and understood what I was saying.

There are the times that I am thankful for them for being there for me. For supporting me in my accomplishments, for letting me know they have been through similar situations and have my back, or for holding the ladder as I climbed down from the rafters at Habitat for Humanity.

There are the times that I am thankful for them for letting me lead. They understood that I was a quiet leader and encouraged that. They wanted me to be have a position in our brotherhood that would bring us closer. They gave me the opportunity for growth in myself.

There are the times that I am thankful for the memories. For the experience I always wanted in college and now finally have. For the friends I hadn't made yet and now are some of the most important people in my life. For the laughter and Greek alphabet and our crazy dance moves.

There are the times that I am thankful for the rough nights. For the times when chapter runs late and we all want to go home. For the times when I have tons of homework left to do and they take my mind of the stress for a little while. For the times that I am tired but someone brings candy and all seems good in the world.

There are the times I am thankful for our diversity. For being able to learn a different way of life, for our different mindsets and opinions, for our different ideas and dreams. For how all of our differences bring us together in all of our similarities.

There are the times that I am thankful for just them. For their wonderful, beautiful selves. For their love of life and love of service. For their hope in changing the world a little bit at a time. I'm at a loss of words for expressing just how truly grateful I am to have them in my life. They've changed my entire college experience and that is priceless. My brothers are those that I can always go to and they've made it so easy. I used to think it was silly when people said that their sisters and brothers were one the best things that ever happened to them in college, but they're right.

And I only wish the best Thanksgiving for all of my brothers, because they deserve it, and I am so blessed to have them as a part of my life.

Cover Image Credit: http://blogs.colum.edu/marginalia/2014/12/08/i-survived-this-semester/

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To The Girl Struggling With Her Body Image

It's not about the size of your jeans, but the size of your heart, soul, and spirit.


To the girl struggling with her body image,

You are more than the number on the scale. You are more than the number on your jeans and dresses. You are way more than the number of pounds you've gained or lost in whatever amount of time.

Weight is defined as the quantity of matter contained by a body or object. Weight does not define your self-worth, ambition or potential.

So many girls strive for validation through the various numbers associated with body image and it's really so sad seeing such beautiful, incredible women become discouraged over a few numbers that don't measure anything of true significance.

Yes, it is important to live a healthy lifestyle. Yes, it is important to take care of yourself. However, taking care of yourself includes your mental health as well. Neglecting either your mental or physical health will inflict problems on the other. It's very easy to get caught up in the idea that you're too heavy or too thin, which results in you possibly mistreating your body in some way.

Your body is your special, beautiful temple. It harbors all of your thoughts, feelings, characteristics, and ideas. Without it, you wouldn't be you. If you so wish to change it in a healthy way, then, by all means, go ahead. With that being said, don't make changes to impress or please someone else. You are the only person who is in charge of your body. No one else has the right to tell you whether or not your body is good enough. If you don't satisfy their standards, then you don't need that sort of negative influence in your life. That sort of manipulation and control is extremely unhealthy in its own regard.

Do not hold back on things you love or want to do because of how you interpret your body. You are enough. You are more than enough. You are more than your exterior. You are your inner being, your spirit. A smile and confidence are the most beautiful things you can wear.

It's not about the size of your jeans. It's about the size of your mind and heart. Embrace your body, observe and adore every curve, bone and stretch mark. Wear what makes you feel happy and comfortable in your own skin. Do your hair and makeup (or don't do either) to your heart's desire. Wear the crop top you've been eyeing up in that store window. Want a bikini body? Put a bikini on your body, simple.

So, as hard as it may seem sometimes, understand that the number on the scale doesn't measure the amount or significance of your contributions to this world. Just because that dress doesn't fit you like you had hoped doesn't mean that you're any less of a person.

Love your body, and your body will love you right back.

Cover Image Credit: Lauren Margliotti

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Poetry On Odyssey: Conflicted

Resolving conflict and letting love back in.


As life moves quickly,

It is to no surprise

That we are constantly faced with change.

With change

Comes peace.

With change

Comes suffering.

With change

Comes conflict.

I stroll through the days of old,

Recognizing how conflicted I was

When I chose to let the love go.

Each night I tossed,

Each night I turned,

Feeling unsure of my decisions,

Unsteady every time I dragged my legs from the bed

And forced myself to keep moving.


I walk happily through the days of new,

Giving thanks for my peace of mind

And my allowance to let a new love in.

I no longer toss,

I no longer turn.

I feel a sense of security

And a sense of pride in my decisions.

I walk steadily,

As I no longer have to force myself to keep moving.

I am no longer conflicted.

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