Thanks To You

Thanks To You

TYSM for the smiles, laughs, and tears.


Where do I start?

Coming to Villanova was the biggest accomplishment I think I've achieved. I was so scared of potential roommates, cliques, girls, sororities, boys... Then I met you. I had made a friend on the Facebook group chat and she'd introduced me to you. I never thought we'd go on this crazy ride.

Even through evolved friendships, you've never left my side. You gave me advice when I wouldn't hear anyone else. You kept the walls from closing around me time and time again. When I have a dream, you make sure it comes true. When I feel lazy and unproductive, you motivate me just to get out of bed for a meal. You made my sides split with laughter and my smile wider than it has been lately. You tell me secrets, even if it's just that you think I'm cute. You hype up my outfits, Club Penguin-dance with me at frats, and order copious amounts of delivery with me without judging [or failing to Venmo back ;)].

I don't think you understand the influence you've had on my life in this short year of knowing you. Something tells me we'll continue these adventures through graduation. I'll miss you over breaks, especially over the summer, but I'll WhatsApp you and always spam you with the spiciest memes. But for now, here's a thank you.

Thank you for understanding my Vine references.

Thank you for the Barbie move marathons.

Thank you for laughing at my memes and recreating the Tik Toks I send you.

Thank you for knowing my tendencies more than myself.

Thank you for keeping me from crossing the line, making bad decisions, or loving the wrong boy.

Thank you for wandering all of South late at night just to go outside and watch movies because the lounges are full.

Thank you for booing my ex when I need to hear it.

Thank you for being a bro and a thicc thotty with me as appropriate.

Thank you for accompanying me to KOP and hitting Coldstone with me every time.

Thank you for spilling the hottest tea.

Thank you for showing me the wonders of scrunchies. And waking up early.

Thank you for choosing my IG pics and taking the most horrifying Snap filter selfies with me.

Thank you for getting milkshakes with me even if you're not hungry. And Freshens dates. And showing me the F'real machine.

Thank you for haunting me with your Tik Tok dances and autotuned singing.

Thank you for understanding my frustrations, telling me when I'm wrong, and working to fix the problem.

Thank you for letting me put my heart in your Build-A-Bear.

Thank you for being the angel on my shoulder.

Thank you for being a blessing to be friends with. Kick it in France. I love you and all you do.

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To The Girl Who Isn't Graduating On Time, It Won't Feel Any Less Amazing When You Do

Graduating is something to be proud of no matter how long it takes you.


To the girl who isn't graduating college "on time,"

I promise, you will get there eventually, and you will walk across that graduation stage with the biggest smile on your face.

You may have a different journey than the people you grew up with, and that is OKAY. You may have some twists and turns along the way, a few too many major changes, a life change, you may have taken most of a semester off to try to figure your life out, and you're doing the best you can.

Your family and your friends don't think less of you or your accomplishments, they are proud of your determination to get your degree.

They are proud of the woman you are becoming. They don't think of you as a failure or as someone any less awesome than you are. You're getting your degree, you're making moves towards your dreams and the life that you have always wanted, so please stop beating yourself up while you see people graduating college on time and getting a job or buying a car.

Your time will come, you just keep doing what you need to do in order to get on that graduation stage.

Your path is set out for you, and you will get there with time but also with patience. The place you're at right now is where you are supposed to be. You are going to thrive and you are going to be the best version of you when you graduate and start looking for a company that you will be proud to work for. Don't look on social media and feel less than, because at least you're still working towards your degree that you are finally passionate about. You will be prepared. You will be ready once the time comes and you cross the stage, move away, and start your journey in whatever field you're going into.

Don't question yourself, and be confident in your abilities.

With love,

A girl who isn't graduating on time

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Goodbye School, Hello Real World

I'm ready for ya!


It's starting to hit me.

I've been in school, year after year, since kindergarten. Maybe even pre-school!

Now, I'm about to graduate with my bachelors in communication and I couldn't be more proud of myself. I'll say it. I often sugarcoat it or suppress it but d*mn it. I'm going to applaud myself. It was hard work. It took a lot of motivation, determination, (caffeine), and willpower to get to where I am today. I worked my ass off.

That being said, I can't help but think... What is life without due dates? What is life like without scrambling to turn in an assignment that's due at 11:59 PM? What is life like with actual sleep? Sleep? I don't know her.

Like I keep telling my boyfriend and my parents, I don't have it all figured out. At least not right now. But I will, and I'm in no rush to land my dream job right now. If anything, I want to take a year to myself. I want to travel. I want to sleep in if I d*mn well please! I want to read as many books as I want. I want to write till my fingers fall off (OK, maybe not that).

You get the jist.

I'm free. I can do and be whatever I want. And you know what? That's terrifying.

I'm lost. I've followed this structure for so long. Now what?

I don't have all the answers yet. But for now, at least right at this very moment, I'm so thankful to have been able to receive such an amazing education. And to be able to say I'm graduating with my bachelors in communication at 21 is an accomplishment in itself.

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