I've written a blog like this once before on my personal blog and I learned so much just writing that. Thank you for breaking me is such an odd thing to say, but I'm very thankful that I was broken. I am thankful I was broken because out of that I gained more respect for myself and a better understanding of what I deserved.
This person truly broke me, but I am a better person because of that. After that relationship I was confused and lost, not knowing what to do, but after that relationship, I learned a lot about myself. I learned what I will and will not settle for, I learned who I will and will not date, I learned how to love myself, I learned to rely on God instead of anyone around me, and I learned how strong I truly am.
Thank you for breaking me.
You cheated on me, lied to me, manipulated me, blamed me, made me feel like crap, made me feel worthless, made me feel like I deserved nothing better and I hate that I went through that, but I will forever be thankful of the person I became because of that. All of the bad you did to me, ended up being so much good for me. I truly believe that if none of that would have happened I would still be the insecure girl I was who had low self-esteem, almost no confidence, and dated to avoid the loneliness.
Learning to love myself helped with my problem of dating because I just wanted to be loved. I began to realize that no one would love me until I loved me; finally loving yourself is one of the most fulfilling things. No one will ever love you as you will love you. So thank you, for ruining the person I was because a much better person was created out of it all.