10 Lessons 'The Bachelor' and 'The Bachelorette' Taught Me
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10 Lessons 'The Bachelor' and 'The Bachelorette' Taught Me

These shows can teach us about our journey to love

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10 Lessons 'The Bachelor' and 'The Bachelorette' Taught Me
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It’s no surprise I love watching the shows "The Bachelor" and "Bachelorette." It can also teach you lessons too, and here is what it taught me.

1. Put yourself out there.

As scary as it is, you never know what happens unless you try.

2. Don’t be afraid to show someone who you are.

In order to see if you are compatible with someone, you need to show them different sides of you.

3. Taking chances can be scary, yet exciting.

As hard as taking a chance with someone new it is can be the best too.

4. Dating can be like selling yourself.

When you first date someone it can actually seem like you are selling yourself to them.

5. When you find someone you click with you know right away.

There are times on the show that I know they can click with each other those are the ones who usually last.

6. Competing for a person’s attention can be difficult.

Especially with 20 people to beat out. Even competing with the world around for one person can be difficult.

7. Never tear down another person to make yourself seem better.

Not to mention it makes you look bad.

8. Never get drunk the first night.

Since you want to remember it!

9. Love can be amazing.

When you find love it can be the best in the world especially when real feelings develop.

10. Above all, relationships can be amazing when they work right.

Relationships can come and go but if you find the right one then you will know, and they can make it to the end.

I love watching these shows since it gives people hope that the right person is out there, and it makes a good show since people are competing for one person. The drama makes a good show, and it can show you what relationships can be like too.

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