Contrary To What You Think, Tattoos Aren't Permanent

Contrary To What You Think, Tattoos Aren't Permanent

There are way more things in life more permanent than a tattoo

"It is going to be on your body for the rest of your life and in 20 years you'll probably hate it and imagine how wrinkley it will be when you're old and do you know how much it's going to cost to remove it!!!???" Does this sound familiar to anyone? Well those of you wanting/having a tattoo while living under your parents roof or still being supported by your parents financially, you might be pretty accustomed to hearing this.

I hate to admit it, but I have "cool" parents. In the state of North Carolina, even if you have a guardian's permission, you are not allowed to get a tattoo until you are 18. But I wanted a tattoo for as long as I can remember so for my 17th birthday, my mom took me to Virginia to get tatted for the first time!

It was so awesome and I've gotten a lot more since that birthday. Both of my parents have many tattoos so I've never had any "tattoos are permanent" speeches from them. But I have heard them being given to my friends and such...and here's what I have to say about it:

Tattoos aren't permanent! Yes, you read that correctly. Although painful and expensive, tattoos can be removed. And what I really mean by this is that your daughter getting a phrase that means a lot to her tattooed on her rib cage is not the worst thing she can do. Because you know something that actually is permanent? A college degree.

How is it fair that you're against the permanence of tattoos at the age of 18 but you want young people fresh out of high school to decide what they want their career to be? At 17 or 18 years old we were expected to graduate high school, pick a college, decide on a major, and essentially make one of the biggest decisions a person makes-what am I going to do for the rest of my life? How are we expected to this with no problem, but we are not mature enough to make the choice to permanently ink our bodies?

All I'm saying is a college degree is 4+ years of work and way more expensive than an $80 tattoo...maybe try this side of the argument next time mom or dad pulls out the "permanent" lecture!

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10 Outfits Every College Girl Wears To Class At Least Once

You can thank me later.

It's happened on more than one occasion.

The occasion of being called out more than once for dressing down for class and by "down" I mean some of the haters we hate to love claiming that they can't see the shorts we're wearing under the oversized band tee on our way to class.

Contrary to popular belief, yes I'm not oblivious to how my choice of outfits for class tends to shift on the more comfortable side and yes, I am aware that it looks like I'm not wearing pants, I like it that way.

Every girl in college wears what they feel is comfortable enough to wear in a 2-hour lecture and these are my ideas of comfort.

1. The infamous oversized tee with Nike shorts.

I'll say it right now, I have a variety of assorted Soffee and Nike shorts that I pair with almost every oversized tee I own and it's my go-to for those 8 AM math lectures.

2. Oversized tee with leggings and riding boots.

Once the first red, yellow and orange leaf is found on campus grounds, you know you're about to see a swarm of college girls, like me, sporting riding boots in every shade of brown. Jeans optional.

3. Oversized tee with leggings and rain boots.

Once the first rainfall hits campus, you better believe you'll see this same 'fit paired with Hunter boots in almost every color.

4. The "I'm going to the gym right after class, I SWEAR" look.

Whether or not I have plans to go to the gym after class or not, I'm probably in my gym gear 4 times of the week and I'm not ashamed by it.

5. Jeans.

I've always had a hate/hate relationship with wearing jeans when I absolutely do not have to and here's why: they make my derriere completely disappear. When (and if) you catch me wearing jeans in lecture hall it's probably because someone paid me a large sum of money to do so.

6. Your boyfriend's flannel paired with... you guessed it, your favorite pair of leggings.

This is probably one of the many flannels I've stolen from my boyfriend and certainly not the last one. Paired with another favorite standard black leggings, you can't go wrong with this outfit to snooze in.

7. The baseball hat and quarter zip ensemble.

One of my all times favorites, you can't go wrong with a zipper up 3x too big for your body and a baseball hat you honestly forgot where you got it from. We also can't forget our infamous black leggings.

8. Your "walk of shame" outfit.

Now, this doesn't mean you roll up to Intro to Psychology wearing what you wore to the lacrosse mixer the night before, no. This is more of the outfit you so quickly had to throw on in a span of two minutes because you left so and so's apartment downtown an hour too late.

9. A v-neck.

Another one of my favorites.

10. Dresses (or anything even relatively formal).

Disclaimer: I personally would never come to class wearing this but gigantic kudos to cute a** girls that do decide to wear this because you look good.

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'Sissy, Why is That Boy Wearing Makeup?'

June is time to celebrate equality.


This past weekend, I went to the mall with my family. It was just a normal family excursion, and I wanted to walk into Sephora to show my mom a perfume I liked. We go inside, and my mother and I drift away from my dad and 6 year old sister, Sierra. I showed her the perfume I thought smelled amazing (Roses de Chloé) and we look for my sister and father to exit the store. As soon as we leave, my little sister grabs my hand and asks, "Sissy, why is that boy wearing makeup?"

This was the first time my little sister has ever asked about anything like this, and I wanted to make sure I gave her an answer. I turned to her and said, "Sierra, sometimes there are boys who wear makeup, and girls who may dress like boys. People are allowed to wear what they want, it doesn't matter." Sierra looks up at me, says, "Oh okay," and that was the end of it.

Sharing this experience to say, HAPPY PRIDE MONTH!

So thankful to live in a country where all sexual orientations get a day to celebrate their love. That's what this world needs more of-- love. It shouldn't matter who it is, where they are from, the color on their skin, or their gender identity.

When Sierra was born, I always wondered when this conversation would come up. I wondered what I would say, how she would react to it, and how she would be exposed to it. Like I consistently preach, everything happens for a reason, and I'm glad Sierra was able to get exposure and receive an immediate answer. Love is love, and I will forever stand by that.

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