Take Time For You, You'll Thank Yourself Later

Take Time For You, You'll Thank Yourself Later

We get in such busy seasons, but remember to make time for yourself.


Growing up in a Christ-centered family, I have always been taught to have a servant's heart. God loves to see you give to friends, family, and the community around you. Serving and loving others is something that Christians are called to do. However, sometimes, we tend to get caught up with just going through the motions, and we forget about replenishing ourselves when we need it.

You see, I love organization. I have always enjoyed using planners to make sure I am getting all of my school work done on time and going to all the meetings and activities that are required of me. However, when I think of planners, I have always thought about them in "professional" settings or major events. I don't normally plan when I am going to take a nap or play my guitar in my planner. I just do those things when I have the time.

However, as humans, we tend to stay very busy with work, school, and different activities. We make a checklist for the day and as we go through it, we check off each one and move on to the next. Once we finish the checklist, the day is normally almost over. We take care of a few things and then go to bed, to do it all over again. It's easy for us to get burned out when we are living busy lives, am I right?

For me, I have three different types of burnouts. The first one is when I am physically burned out. This is when my body is completely exhausted and all I want to do is sleep. The second one is when I am emotionally burned out. This is basically when I just cry for quite some time, watch a movie, and just eat a bunch of ice cream. The last burnout I have is the one that is always hard for me to notice: being mentally burned out. This is when I physically can still go exercise, stay on top of things, and emotionally, I'm not crying a bunch. But, my energy to think and process things is very low. I get easily irritable and have a hard time letting my stress and emotions out. I feel off, but always have a hard time figuring out exactly what is wrong with me.

I was talking to one of my friends lately and telling her, I keep feeling so off and just in a funk about things. She asked me "well when is the last time you read some scripture or spent some time with God?" I said, "I mean I went to church Sunday. I've been reading my bible at bible study, and I read it for another study I'm doing with my friend. So I've been reading a bit lately, but still, I feel off." Then she said, "But Claire, when was the last time you read some scripture for yourself? Not for church, or a bible study, or for anyone else, just for you?" This was when I realized that I've been giving so much energy and time to other things, but I haven't been giving that same energy or time to myself.

Picture yourself as a water bottle. When a water bottle is full of water, it's hard to crush it and make it tensed up. It's just a normal water bottle. Now, every time you do something that requires a lot of energy out of you, you lose water. This can be going to classes/doing homework, listening or giving advice to a friend in need, serving in your community, going to work, etc. As you go through different activities on your checklist, you are losing water. When you start running out of the water, the bottle gets easier to crush up and make it tensed. Eventually, you run out of the water. The water bottle is completely empty and it can be crushed up pretty easily. This is what happens when you are mentally burned out. You have been losing all this water and as you kept going, it was easier to make you irritable and stressed out about stuff.

It's super good to be focused on giving to others. It's great to have a servant's heart, but you have to remember to give some self-care time to yourself.

Write it in your planner.

Turn your phone off.

Go on a walk.

Read a good book.

Do something just for yourself.

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10 Bible Verses for Self Esteem

Sometimes you need to search for inner strength and find your own self worth.

We all get those days that we just don't feel good enough for anything. Everything is going wrong. For me, I go to the bible to read the words of God. His personal dialog for us is filled with encouragement, hope, and lessons we can learn from. Here are my top ten verses that are uplifting and impacting when at the lowest of lows:

1. Philippians 4:13:

I can do all things in Him who strengthens me.

2. Psalm 46:5

God is within her, she will not fall.

3. Proverbs 31:25

She is clothed with strength and dignity, and she laughs without fear of the future.

4. Psalm 28:76

The Lord is my strength and my shield.

5. 1 Corinthians 25:10

By the grace of God, I am what I am.

6. Romans 5:8

I loved you at your darkest.

7. Psalm 62:5-6

Only God gives inward peace, and I depend on Him. God alone is the mighty rock that keeps me safe, and he is the fortress where I feel secure.

8. 2 Timothy 1:7

For the Spirit God gave us does not make us timid, but gives us power, love, and self-discipline.

9. 1 Peter 2:9

But you are a chosen race, a royal priesthood, a holy nation, a people for his own possession, that you may proclaim the excellencies of him who called you out of darkness into his marvelous light.

10. 2 Chronicles 20:15

The battle is not ours, but God's.

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You Don't Need A 'Bikini Body' To Fully Love Yourself This Summer

You don't need to be stick-thin to feel good about your body.


One of my favorite quotes of all time is, "Comparison is the thief of joy." Want to know why? Because it's true.

I could look in the mirror one day and feel totally confident about myself. Then I'll see a post on Instagram of some beautiful girl, feel awful, and wonder why I don't look like that. But there's a reason I don't look like that — because I'm me, not them.

The fact of the matter is that we need to love ourselves for who we are. We need to stop comparing our beauty to that of others. We are all our own people and we should feel confident in our beauty.

Bikini season is a major source of struggle for me and many others. Everyone is lounging on the beach in bikinis and you feel like you just want to hide under your towel. Every other photo on your social media is a super skinny girl from high school showing off her body. You will NEVER see a photo of me in a bikini on social media because I'm simply not comfortable in my body enough to show it off like that. I have always wished that I was, but at the same time, that's not who I am.

You don't need to be stick thin to feel good about your body. Every body is beautiful, and we need to embrace that. If we constantly look to others as a source of comparison, we will literally never be happy in our own skin.

Bikini season is tough as it is, don't make it tougher on yourself by allowing your mind to take over. Enjoy your spring break, enjoy your summer, enjoy your life. You deserve it. You deserve happiness.

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