Bid Day has finally arrived. We run outside to meet the newest members of our chapter, the ones that will continue our lasting legacy when each of us eventually graduates and leaves our current happy place. For me, this Bid Day is a bit more emotional for me than others of the past, because it is my last. If I had told myself as a lost freshman that I would join a sorority and have the amazing college experience that I have had, I never would've believed it.
Back in the Spring of 2013, I was a brand new student at the University of Akron, having transferred from another school. At the time, I had no desire to join Greek life. I thought I wouldn't fit in, being the quiet, introverted person that I am. After some thinking, I decided to go through spring recruitment and give it a try. What I discovered was wonderful; each chapter had such a strong and close sisterhood, and I really wanted to become a part of that. This is when I found Alpha Phi.
Alpha Phi's philanthropy, The Alpha Phi Foundation, works to support Women's heart health. Through different events, the women of Alpha Phi strive to raise money and awareness for a disease that is the number one killer in women. When I learned of this, it really hit home. When I was 15, I was diagnosed with bradycardia, a condition that causes my heart to beat slower than normal. Hearing about all of the effort they put into this philanthropy that means so much to me and is extremely close to my heart, my decision had become clear; I would be honored to become a part of something so amazing, something that's much bigger than myself.
Through the years, my sisters have been there for me through my darkest days and my brightest hours. They have been there to support me through anything I was going through with no hesitation. Looking back to where it all began, I've realized that I've come such a long way; from the girl that said she would never join a sorority, to the girl who can't picture her life without it.
Here I am now, on Bid Day, surrounded by over 80 of my closest friends, taking in the moment. It has been a rewarding experience to have been able to make a difference in the community and beyond, and having a blast every step of the way. Alpha Phi has given me the best years of my life, and I don't think I could ever be more grateful for that. Thank you for accepting my awkward, weird self as I am. Thank you for being there for me when I needed a friend. Thank you for the memories. First, you become a part of it, then it becomes a part of you. AOE, ladies.
