'Tis the season for cuddling, kissing under the mistletoe and giving cute gifts to your significant other. You got it, folks, it’s cuffing season. It seems like everyone already has someone or wants someone to love and be committed to. How does a single woman cope during this (potentially) lonely season?

1. Spend time with friends.

The holidays don’t have to be lonely. Your friends are the ones who will always have your back no matter what season it is. They’re the ones who know the real you, so why not schedule a Christmas party with your squad?

2. Buy yourself something nice.

You don’t have to be in a relationship to get nice stuff. Treat yourself to a pair of fuzzy socks, or if you can afford it, something even nicer (I’m thinking a luxury mani-pedi and some goodies from Sephora, but if you’re more of a wine-and-vibrators kind of gal, that’s cool too).

3. Take yourself out to dinner.

Dining alone is something everyone should experience at least once. It doesn’t have to be depressing. There’s something beautiful about sharing special, scheduled date with yourself.

4. Snuggle up into a fuzzy onesie with a hot cup of tea.

Turn on your favorite Netflix show and enjoy a quiet, cozy night by yourself and the cast of Friends. Self-cuddling, man.

5. Make a list of all the benefits you enjoy by being single.

Not worrying about anyone cheating on you? Check. Having the freedom to see whomever you choose? Check. Having more time to spend with friends and develop your own identity? Check!

6. Take a little trip.

It’s easy to get down in the dumps when you see the same things every day. How about a change of scenery? It doesn’t have to be a lavish vacation (because let’s be honest, most people can’t afford that). In fact, it can be as simple as hopping on a bus to see where you end up or going for a drive on your own. Sometimes it helps to get a new perspective on things.

7. Get lit.

You know what I’m talking about, ladies.

8. Go through some funny old photos of when you were single.

If you survived being single then, you can survive now. Look at how much fun you were having--no significant other had to be involved!

9. Give back to the world.

Stepping out of your own world and doing good for others is a sure way to feel better. Volunteer, give to a reputable charity if you can, and try to be a kind human being. I promise you’ll feel a little fuller after doing so.

10. Make your living space festive.

Just because you’re single doesn’t mean you can’t have holiday cheer. String up those lights, girl!

11. Reach out to an old friend or family member.

Wish them happy holidays. Give them a gift. Tell them you’ve been thinking of them. It’s important to focus on the non-romantic relationships in life, too.

12. Don’t be ashamed to feel.

Yes, it hurts to look out the window and see a beautiful couple kissing in the snow. It doesn’t feel nice to be the only single in your friend group, to feel lonely, to feel like nobody loves you. Acknowledge your feelings and cry them out, but above all...

13. Remember that your worth doesn’t come from someone else.

Nobody can complete you because you’re already whole. Although being loved romantically by someone else feels nice, it isn’t a necessity to thrive. You possess strength in your independence. You are everyone you need.

Let’s change the way we view the holidays. Singles can be happy. Singles can and do thrive on their own. 'Tis the season for self-love, solo dinner dates, and fun times with the people we care about. Can I get a toast to that?