"Hoping for the captain of the ship you're on to sink, is like rooting for your own failure."

Growing up I played sports. Lots and lots of sports, and not all of the Parks and Rec "participation trophy" variety, but of the cut and dry "we don't care if you're eight years old and cute, you didn't make it this season, work hard and try again next year" mentality. It instilled in me the powerful character trait of Good Sportsmanship--a skill I fear that younger generations (including mine) are forsaking in the name of preserving people's feelings.

I'll be honest, when I cast my vote November 8th, the name "Donald Trump" was not checked on my ballot--neither was Harambe for those of you curious parties.

I did not think that he was the best candidate for the job. The best candidate for the job (in my opinion), never had a shot at winning, as he was not aligned with a major party.

Do I agree with things that Donald Trump has said? Some yes, some no.

Do I think he should be allowed on twitter? Dear God, No.

As we head into the next 4-8 years, we prepare for change. Change is the most beautiful part of our democracy. Everyone gets a turn to have their voices heard. It would be beautiful if everyone could feel loved, respected, and heard at all times, but it's not possible in the world we live in.

The democratic party has spent the last eight years changing (and in my opinion ruining) our healthcare system. Government agencies should not be in control of privatized things. It's an opinion, yes, but it's supported by factual evidence.

And as a woman, I worry that the republican party may spend the next four years changing (hopefully not ruining) women's rights. That is my fear, and again, a factually based fear.

But hoping for Donald's demise is like hoping for our country to burn down into a nation of waste....

Instead of rioting in the streets and attacking supporters of either party, promote social change. Go to your women's marches, write your senator's, start and sign petitions. There are ways to make your voice heard, but often the voice that is listened to is not the one that is a shrill scream, but the calm and steady voice of confidence and change.

So accept our new president, whether you cast your vote for him or not, and make your voice heard in any and every respectable, non-violent way you know how.

And most of all, God Bless America, because at least you know you're free.