Suicide is not a joke

It's Time To Stop Making Suicide Jokes Because Losing Someone Really Sucks

Some things just aren't meant to be laughed at


Our generation likes to joke about death. The joke can be as simple as saying "I want to die lol" and can go as far as actually pretending to do it to get attention. Suicide should never be joked about, yet today we call it a coping mechanism. There are so many other ways to cope with depression and suicidal thoughts, but instead, we choose to make fun of it. Well, it's time to stop, because, if you've ever lost someone you love and care about, you'll understand that it's no laughing matter.

A few months ago, I lost my mom. She died from natural causes. Although she did not kill herself, it was still traumatic. This has by far been the worst thing to happen to my and my family, and I would give anything to be able to turn back time and do everything I can to stop her from dying.

Anyone who has lost someone close to them, whether it's a family member or close friend, feels a similar way. Whether you actually feel suicidal or are just pretending, those around you may take your words to heart. Death is a subject taken very seriously, and that should not be changed. Saying anything about wanting to kill yourself, joke or not is very harmful to yourself and others because sometimes it's hard to tell if you're serious or not.

As someone who has recently lost someone important, it makes me angry to hear people glamorizing death. These people clearly don't know the pain and trauma a person goes through when a loved one of theirs dies. Dark humor is not really humor; not to mention there are many other ways to cope with suicidal thoughts that don't harm those around you.

With that being said, if you really are struggling with these thoughts, you are not alone. There are a lot of helpful resources out there. For example, the national suicide hotline, 1-800-273-8255, or online resources, such as the Suicide Prevention Resource Center. If you are not struggling, please be careful about what you say to others. You never know how your words may affect them.

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10 Bible Verses for Self Esteem

Sometimes you need to search for inner strength and find your own self worth.

We all get those days that we just don't feel good enough for anything. Everything is going wrong. For me, I go to the bible to read the words of God. His personal dialog for us is filled with encouragement, hope, and lessons we can learn from. Here are my top ten verses that are uplifting and impacting when at the lowest of lows:

1. Philippians 4:13:

I can do all things in Him who strengthens me.

2. Psalm 46:5

God is within her, she will not fall.

3. Proverbs 31:25

She is clothed with strength and dignity, and she laughs without fear of the future.

4. Psalm 28:76

The Lord is my strength and my shield.

5. 1 Corinthians 25:10

By the grace of God, I am what I am.

6. Romans 5:8

I loved you at your darkest.

7. Psalm 62:5-6

Only God gives inward peace, and I depend on Him. God alone is the mighty rock that keeps me safe, and he is the fortress where I feel secure.

8. 2 Timothy 1:7

For the Spirit God gave us does not make us timid, but gives us power, love, and self-discipline.

9. 1 Peter 2:9

But you are a chosen race, a royal priesthood, a holy nation, a people for his own possession, that you may proclaim the excellencies of him who called you out of darkness into his marvelous light.

10. 2 Chronicles 20:15

The battle is not ours, but God's.

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My Story As A Recovering Self-Harmer

Content warning: Self-harm.


Since high school, I have physically and knowing self-harmed as a way to distract myself. It has been almost 7 years and right now I have only been a few months clean. In the past 7 years, I have relapsed more than a couple of times. I have gone months at a time and found myself at a breaking point.

I know it's nobody's business and it might be oversharing but this is meant for primary readers. For those who are going through recovery or just began today. If secondary or tertiary readers stumble upon this then I hope it helps you understand from the other side.

I am still recovering. The thing about addiction is that you can never fully be "cured." You can be clean for years and still relapse. The key is to decide to try again.

I call it an addiction because it was. I grabbed the razor before I could even understand why I was numb. I did it multiple times a day and sometimes I didn't need an actual reason.

It was a sort of ripple effect. I couldn't stop the ripples into turning into the next one and instead, I just watched as they spread. One second I was OK and the next I locked the door.

Some people smoke and some people drink. I hate the smell of smoke and can't stand the taste of alcohol but I often wish I could use those as a distraction for my distraction. I do many things now to distract myself from getting too close to another relapse. I let out a scream to alarm my family or I start running. The first few seconds of the attempt are the hardest. It's an internal pain that makes you itch inside out.

After a few minutes have passed I can usually begin to calm myself. I sit down and remind myself that everything is OK. It isn't always easy so calling a friend is always an option.

Sometimes I end up crying in order to release all the built-up emotions. When minutes have passed and I am still filled with tears I force myself to grab something to eat. I have realized that I can't cry and eat at the same time. I grab anything. Sometimes my siblings make me something instead.

I am seeking professional help for those who are wondering. I am almost half a year clean and I have two caring and supportive friends and a family who does their best to understand and support me.

Recovery is not easy when it comes to mental illness because the results aren't always visible like a broken bone. Any amount of self felt recovery is amazing. It's a step towards a better you. Talking to people and seeking professional help are all steps.

If you or someone you know is experiencing suicidal thoughts, call the National Suicide Prevention Hotline — 1-800-273-8255

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