StuDYING For Midterms: Part Two

StuDYING For Midterms: Part Two

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“College update: it is midterms week, also known as the week where one completely gives up on putting any time or effort into their appearance, sleep schedule, or anything that does not require your nose to be in a book. Rooms across campus are rented out with students that are fully engaged in preparing for exams, and classrooms fall silent at the start of each midterm. Stress levels are intensified, and it becomes hard to find anyone in a pleasant mood. Thankfully, DePaul students have another five weeks to enjoy college life before actual finals hit us like a truck. Let the countdown to winter break begin.”

The passage above was written on October 17, 2017, also known as DePaul’s most recent week of midterms… also known as a time where I was somehow still managing to keep my sh*t together. I distinctly remember sitting down to write this piece after I had just returned from a trip to the University of Iowa, subtly laughing at the thought of how one week of simple examinations could truly be the one-way ticket to college students not caring about how they look, pulling all-nighters, and even picking up a physical textbook. However, with this round of midterms coming up ever so quickly, I can successfully say that I knew nothing. Now, on to business.

College update round two: midterms are upon us yet again, and I thought I understood what to expect. It is safe to say that, in comparison to last quarter, I am enrolled in significantly more challenging classes than I had been two months ago. Not only have I found myself consumed with hours of homework, but I have also found that my levels of stress have reached an all-time high.

The spirit of procrastination haunts me once again, and it seems as though my only place to escape from this demon is at the nearest Starbucks with a Venti Red Eye and a double shot of espresso (emphasis on the double), or, in this case, the University of Illinois at Urbana-Champaign, where I have spent the past two weekends visiting friends as I casually “forgot” that I needed to study for midterms. As a result, I have officially become the college student that has given up on putting any time and effort into my appearance, sleep schedule, and anything that does not require my nose to be in a book for the week. Though I have yet to visit one of the various study rooms that my sorority has rented in the library, I foresee that day coming in the very near future.

The worst part? I experienced the entire “classroom falling silent at the start of each midterm” trauma the day that my math class opened the midterm review guide. If this is any indication that my success is not off to an optimistic start, then I don’t know what is. Surprisingly, though, I’ve found that I have been remotely capable of keeping up the entire “pleasant mood” façade. I want to believe it is because I know that I am more than capable of achieving my goal of passing each midterm, but truthfully, I think it’s just the coffee speaking. At this point, my only hope is that, by the time quarter three midterms approach, I will not feel compelled to write a follow up article on the further intensity of my levels of stress that await me in the future.

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High school seems like the best time of your life when you are in it. You think that all of your friends will be with you until the end, and that you will end up with whoever you are dating your senior year. For very few, that might just be the case. For all others, that is far from true.

You thought that you would marry your boyfriend and you thought that everything would work out how you had always imagined. I don't blame you though. He's great. You wanted everything with him, but you were just not right for him.

I wish I could say that I am sorry it didn't work out for you, but I can't. I can't because he is mine now, and I get to cherish him forever. You didn't do that right, and you were not meant to be together. You will find someone too, but I am happy that you were not the one for him.

Sometimes I have issues with jealousy, and I hate that you got all of the high school stuff with him. You got to go to games and support him. It kills me that I couldn't be there for him because I know I would have actually been there wholeheartedly. I would have done it out of love, not as a popularity appearance.

I hate that you got to go to all of the school dances with him. He got to see you all dressed up and probably told you how great you looked. I'm sure you did look great. Prom dresses were always fun to pick out and so colorful. It was exciting to match colors with your date. I am sure you had fun choosing his matching tux to your dress.

I find myself getting jealous, but then I stop. I am getting to match his tux with our wedding colors. I got to go dress shopping in a sea of white, and he doesn't get to know one detail about that dress yet. He will get to see me walk down the aisle and then every day forever. I get to love him forever.

I try to not get jealous of all of the things you got with him because it is all in the past. You had your time, and now I get the wedding. You got to dress up in high school, but I get to dress up for my wedding with him. He may have put a corsage on your wrist, but he will be putting the wedding ring on my finger.

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Oh our 20s, how we expected them to be so different. We expected to graduate college at 22, have a career by 23, be engaged by 24, married with a house by 25, kids by 26-28, vacationing with the family by 30, and retired by 60. We expected college to be parties and cute boys/girls. Instead, we got late nights of studying and crying after a job that barely pays for our car, food, dorm, and textbooks. We get no social life and if we do our grades suffer for it.

Our 20s were expected to be all fun but all we got were struggles and stress. I mean I don't know about you but I expected, to have it all together and I'm nearly 23 and far from it. I had all the scholarships and great grades, and I still don't have any type of degree.

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The weird thing about your 20s is everyone is doing something different, but yet everyone is confused and comparing themselves to others. People feel if they're not doing what others are doing, in their age group then they have failed themselves. What people forget is that with life comes obstacles and sacrifice and everyone's life and situations are different. You are where you need to be right now, for you, and I think that's something to remember in your 20s.

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