Guys, Stop Making A Woman's Attraction To Other Women About You
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Guys, Stop Making A Woman's Attraction To Other Women About You

This has nothing to do with men, sorry

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Guys, Stop Making A Woman's Attraction To Other Women About You
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Frat boys holler at a party as two girls make out.

A man publishes a scientific study that concludes that women are only bi because it turns men on.

Lesbian porn is one of the most watched porn categories by men.

Somehow, men take one of the only things that don't involve them: women's attraction to other women, and make it for them.

Let’s get one thing clear, when women are attracted to women, it has nothing to do with men. Lesbians are not lesbians because they do not like men, or cannot find a man.

Lesbians are lesbians because they only like women. Bisexual or otherwise sexually fluid girls are not into multiple genders because they think it will make them more desirable to men or because men will be more likely to sleep with them if they can add another girl into the mix. Bisexual girls are bi because they like men and women.

A woman’s feelings for another woman are about that woman only, no one else.

I know society trains us that women are here for men and so when something comes along to shake up that status quo it’s hard to handle. But that doesn’t mean that when women are dating women men get to make it about them. There is one thing that you can’t get involved with and that is romantic relationships between two women, so stop trying. No more cheers when girls happen to kiss in front of you.

No more asking bisexual women if they’re down for a threesome. No more taking a love that doesn’t involve you and shoving your opinion in it. Sapphic women are over it.

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