How Stoneman Douglas Hit Close To Home

How Stoneman Douglas Hit Close To Home

While some might see this as one way I see it in a completely different way.

As writers, we like to focus on certain topics. For me, I have always focused on sports and moments in life that can help others grow as individuals. However, as a writer, you also have to know when to put your topics of choice aside and focus on a more pressing idea. Everyone who knows me knows I love sports and going deep into the information whether it's about Alabama or how Tom Brady defied so many people and continues to do so but this week I think it's time to focus on a different situation. That situation is the school shooting that happened last week in Parkland, Florida.

We have seen the news reports, the Facebook posts and of course most recently the walkouts and before we just look at this as another person telling us what is wrong with America I want you to look at this as something else. I’m not here to say my political affiliation or what we need to do about guns, but what I do want to say is how this hit close to home for me.

Throughout my life, I have been lucky enough to call a huge group of friends my close and best friends many of which came from the camp Ramah Darom. Of those friends, many of them are from Florida, particularly the Miami and Boca Raton area. Boca Raton is 15 minutes away from Parkland which is why this story starts to get scary for me. Seeing the news about accidents or certain events sometimes I would just half listen to, but seeing something of this magnitude opened my eyes and my eyes were opened even more after receiving an email from my father.

In the email, my father states how of the 17 victims killed, 5 of the victims were Jewish including a teacher named Scott Beigel, who sacrificed himself for his students. Hearing this made me break down. While I didn’t know these students just thinking of people similar to me losing their lives in something this tragic made me think of all my friends I made at Ramah and how it could’ve been any of them.

One of the victims, Alyssa Alhadeff, was an alum of the Jewish camp Coleman which is a camp near to my camp Ramah Darom. Realizing people who knew and had a connection with her is hard to fathom especially at a young age. After losing one of my campers almost two months ago I still have trouble putting into words how I feel, but for friends or anyone close to Alyssa, this still hurts.

A few days ago one of my good friends from Ramah wrote an article about that day and as I reread the article I can't help but get emotional. Sometimes we forget about certain events but this one will be on my mind even though I didn’t have a direct relationship with the school. When I was 16 in my first soccer game of the year I wrote the name Jack Pinto on one arm and the time he lived on the other. Jack Pinto was one of the children murdered at Sandy Hook and I wanted to honor a victim in a way that I could. Writing this article makes me think back to the time I honored Jack and now I hope I get to honor the victims from Stoneman Douglas.

While the event is in the past it isn’t something we should forget and it will be something I won't forget. 15 minutes away from my friends it still scares me to think about that and while it will take time for the community to heal they need all the help they can get. The more I think about this the more real it gets, and the more I am just left terrified.

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An Open Letter To Democrats From A Millennial Republican

Why being a Republican doesn't mean I'm inhuman.

Dear Democrats,

I have a few things to say to you — all of you.

You probably don't know me. But you think you do. Because I am a Republican.

Gasp. Shock. Horror. The usual. I know it all. I hear it every time I come out of the conservative closet here at my liberal arts university.

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“You're a Republican?" people ask, saying the word in the same tone that Draco Malfoy says “Mudblood."

I know that not all Democrats feel about Republicans this way. Honestly, I can't even say for certain that most of them do. But in my experience, saying you're a Republican on a liberal college campus has the same effect as telling someone you're a child molester.

You see, in this day and age, with leaders of the Republican Party standing up and spouting unfortunately ridiculous phrases like “build a wall," and standing next to Kim Davis in Kentucky after her release, we Republicans are given an extreme stereotype. If you're a Republican, you're a bigot. You don't believe in marriage equality. You don't believe in racial equality. You don't believe in a woman's right to choose. You're extremely religious and want to impose it on everyone else.

Unfortunately, stereotypes are rooted in truth. There are some people out there who really do think these things and feel this way. And it makes me mad. The far right is so far right that they make the rest of us look bad. They make sure we aren't heard. Plenty of us are fed up with their theatrics and extremism.

For those of us brave enough to wear the title “Republican" in this day and age, as millennials, it's different. Many of us don't agree with these brash ideas. I'd even go as far as to say that most of us don't feel this way.

For me personally, being a Republican doesn't even mean that I automatically vote red.

When people ask me to describe my political views, I usually put it pretty simply. “Conservative, but with liberal social views."

“Oh," they say, “so you're a libertarian."

“Sure," I say. But that's the thing. I'm not really a libertarian.

Here's what I believe:

I believe in marriage equality. I believe in feminism. I believe in racial equality. I don't want to defund Planned Parenthood. I believe in birth control. I believe in a woman's right to choose. I believe in welfare. I believe more funds should be allocated to the public school system.

Then what's the problem? Obviously, I'm a Democrat then, right?

Wrong. Because I have other beliefs too.

Yes, I believe in the right to choose — but I'd always hope that unless a pregnancy would result in the bodily harm of the woman, that she would choose life. I believe in welfare, but I also believe that our current system is broken — there are people who don't need it receiving it, and others who need it that cannot access it.

I believe in capitalism. I believe in the right to keep and bear arms, because I believe we have a people crisis on our hands, not a gun crisis. Contrary to popular opinion, I do believe in science. I don't believe in charter schools. I believe in privatizing as many things as possible. I don't believe in Obamacare.

Obviously, there are other topics on the table. But, generally speaking, these are the types of things we millennial Republicans get flack for. And while it is OK to disagree on political beliefs, and even healthy, it is NOT OK to make snap judgments about me as a person. Identifying as a Republican does not mean I am the same as Donald Trump.

Just because I am a Republican, does not mean you know everything about me. That does not give you the right to make assumptions about who I am as a person. It is not OK for you to group me with my stereotype or condemn me for what I feel and believe. And for a party that prides itself on being so open-minded, it shocks me that many of you would be so judgmental.

So I ask you to please, please, please reexamine how you view Republicans. Chances are, you're missing some extremely important details. If you only hang out with people who belong to your own party, chances are you're missing out on great people. Because, despite what everyone believes, we are not our stereotype.


A millennial Republican

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Why The Idea Of 'No Politics At The Dinner Table' Takes Place And Why We Should Avoid It

When did having a dialogue become so rare?


Why has the art of civilized debate and conversation become unheard of in daily life? Why is it considered impolite to talk politics with coworkers and friends? Expressing ideas and discussing different opinions should not be looked down upon.

I have a few ideas as to why this is our current societal norm.

1. Politics is personal.

Your politics can reveal a lot about who you are. Expressing these (sometimes controversial) opinions may put you in a vulnerable position. It is possible for people to draw unfair conclusions from one viewpoint you hold. This fosters a fear of judgment when it comes to our political beliefs.

Regardless of where you lie on the spectrum of political belief, there is a world of assumption that goes along with any opinion. People have a growing concern that others won't hear them out based on one belief.

As if a single opinion could tell you all that you should know about someone. Do your political opinions reflect who you are as a person? Does it reflect your hobbies? Your past?

The question becomes "are your politics indicative enough of who you are as a person to warrant a complete judgment?"

Personally, I do not think you would even scratch the surface of who I am just from knowing my political identification.

2. People are impolite.

The politics themselves are not impolite. But many people who wield passionate, political opinion act impolite and rude when it comes to those who disagree.

The avoidance of this topic among friends, family, acquaintances and just in general, is out of a desire to 'keep the peace'. Many people have friends who disagree with them and even family who disagree with them. We justify our silence out of a desire to avoid unpleasant situations.

I will offer this: It might even be better to argue with the ones you love and care about, because they already know who you are aside from your politics, and they love you unconditionally (or at least I would hope).

We should be having these unpleasant conversations. And you know what? They don't even need to be unpleasant! Shouldn't we be capable of debating in a civilized manner? Can't we find common ground?

I attribute the loss of political conversation in daily life to these factors. 'Keeping the peace' isn't an excuse. We should be discussing our opinions constantly and we should be discussing them with those who think differently.

Instead of discouraging political conversation, we should be encouraging kindness and understanding. That's how we will avoid the unpleasantness that these conversations sometimes bring.

By avoiding them altogether, we are doing our youth a disservice because they are not being exposed to government, law, and politics, and they are not learning to deal with people and ideas that they don't agree with.

Next Thanksgiving, talk politics at the table.

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