Stay Positive While Job Hunting

Staying Positive While Job Hunting Is Half The Battle

Your attitude makes all the difference.


As a recent graduate, job applications have been the bane of my existence. While it's the hard moments that they say define you, ultimately, I say, it's more important to stay positive. While that may not be an easy task, I find it obtainable by implementing small steps, such as celebrating the little victories and sticking to a schedule.

Applications are stressful and repetitive. Trust me, I completely get the struggle of not remembering your password without being reminded that it needs an upper case letter, number, and special character. And of course, your new password can't be the same as your old one! (For when you ultimately give up and reset it, I mean.) Despite this annoying process, most students have learned that applications are purely a numbers game, and should your schedule allow it, need to be going out daily.

Interviewing is also hard. Every time I put out a new set of applications, I always take time to celebrate when I get my first interview - even if it ends up amounting to nothing, receiving such is a good affirmation that your hard work may be starting to pay off. That being said, it's not (even close to) the end. Still ensure discipline and diligence by doing your homework, namely by preparing your answers - both to those generic questions that almost always get asked, as well as job-specific responsibilities. Also, don't forget to research the company!

The biggest issues my peers, and admittedly, I have personally had during job hunting is staying positive. No, receiving rejection after rejection isn't easy. That being said, there could be a million reasons a company didn't choose you - and, no, they're not always your fault. While you should actively look for places where you can improve your resume, cover letter, or interview skills, understand that your employment, unfortunately, can be determined by factors out of your control.

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Whatever's Meant To Be Will Be

Not a normal thing you'd hear from a type-A personality.

Let me be the first to say that this article is not something I ever saw myself writing. It's not part of my personality, as I am 100% type-A and mostly a control freak as well as a perfectionist. I can't get anything done without a checklist, I am always on my A-game as far as staying on top of my work, and am anything but lazy when it comes to working.

In recent events, my life has been turned upside down. I am about to go from having a job where I'm going 400 miles per hour (for multiple years) to a screeching halt where I'll be jobless within the next few months. Plus side: I know I'll be jobless, so it's not the shock that some people experience. However, this is something that I, a complete workaholic, have had a very hard time coming to terms with.

Side note: I do not kid you when I say that I am the definition of workaholic. My whole world revolves around it and I love it. I don't complain about working seven days a week, and if I do complain it's just to complain. I never actually hate it despite what some might think on an off day. I love what I do, I love the long hours, the fact that it consumes me, and no, I'm not crazy. I've loved it since day one and I wouldn't take back a single second of it.

Back to the point: Knowing that I'm losing my job which is and has been most of my life for years now has been quite an odd feeling. I haven't been very public about me losing my job because at first, I was completely ashamed. It's definitely not my fault, I just didn't quite know how to put into words the fact that I feel like my world is being taken away. At first, I didn't want to answer people's questions about it, I didn't want to talk about it because it hasn't happened yet and I felt like no one could understand. In the past month that I've had time to think about it, there's just one thing I keep coming back to: you just have to let it all go and say the saying that my mother always said and I believe now more than ever is the truest saying there is: whatever is meant to be will be.

Trust me when I say that I still struggle with it, I will struggle with it until I know where my next adventure takes me, but that's the thing that people don't agree with. They don't understand how I can just be okay not only me losing my job, but that I am not currently actively trying to get a new job right away. The job market is tough, there aren't jobs out there, you don't know where you want to live, how do you not know these things?

I do know them. I hear them from every person who finds out about my situation, and furthermore, I hear about what they think I should do. I'm a type-A personality. I'm a workaholic and a perfectionist. I've gone over every scenario and every opportunity that's presented itself 100 times. But, there's nothing I can currently do. And furthermore, there's nothing I want to do. I've decided to let it all go. I've decided to just let things be. I want to enjoy my last month or two working for an organization I literally have poured my heart, soul, blood, sweat, and tears into for four years.

I will look for new jobs and trust me, I know it won't be easy to find one. I will bust my butt when I need to and I will find a new place to be a workaholic at. Until I do, though, I will just let it all go, I will let things fall into whatever place they are meant to, and I will enjoy myself.

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Why Ellena Whitfield Became YouTube's 'EllenaWhat'

A conversation with Ellena Whitfield on the future of YouTube, journalism, and social media.


Ellena Whitfield, popularly known as "EllenaWhat" has taken advantage of the social media revolution with the success of her YouTube channel, which has a following of 65,000 subscribers.

YouTube has become the gateway to success for many young internet influencers as the site became second-most popular in the world as of August 2018.

Whitfield has applied her success online to her schooling at the Walter Cronkite School of Journalism and Mass Communication at Arizona State University. With an aspiration to become a Rolling Stone or Alternative Press journalist, Whitfield creates weekly music reviews to her channel.

"I think YouTube is relevant because of the culture our generation expresses. We grew up with the boom of social media and it's our modern-day entertainment on a more personal level. Our parents experienced the same thing through the boom of television. This is why we've started to idolize influencers like they are movie stars," Whitfield said.


Whitfield has met many other young and successful influencers during her time at ASU and the making of her channel. Her cousin, Kendall Rae, a YouTuber with 1 million subscribers inspired her to create her channel.

Whitfield expressed that she would love to become a full-time YouTuber, but there is always the fear that the platform will crash.

"One of the biggest YouTube influencers, Jeffree Star, was making money off of Myspace and then all of a sudden the platform, which seemed revolutionary at the time, crashed and he was forced to live on his friend's couches for a while," Whitfield said.

Even with the fear of YouTube ending, Whitfield said her YouTube channel has given her a platform and the experience she needs to succeed as a journalist. Whitfield said that YouTube not only helped her gain a social relevance, but it gave her experience on how to make relevant and timely content.

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Human communication professor, Steven Corman emphasizes Whitfield's point on the importance of present-day journalists adopting the social revolution.

"Mainstream media and social media are part of a shared ecosystem. Mainstream media uses social media as a source of information, and social media plays an important role in distributing stories from mainstream media. Journalists need to embrace both if they want to be successful in creating stories and reaching larger audiences with those stories," Corman said.

The most unique aspect of journalism is that it is forever expanding. There are many new platforms and ways of sharing news such as YouTube that allows journalists to spread news faster than ever.


Lexi Varrato, the social media director of ASU's AWSM club strives to evolve with journalism, especially when it comes to the club she helps run as it is one of the most important aspects of journalism to stay relevant.

"Having a social platform as a journalist is crucial because it helps you build your brand and create a presence in an era that is so technologically focused. Not only will you create your image, but it allows you to make connections that will help you further your career," Varrato said.

The rise of young influencers is very inspiring to Whitfield as she says it is realistic to make a career as an influencer. She said that YouTube can lead creators to many different careers such as creating a fashion line or becoming a journalist as she aspires.

Whitfield plans to keep her channel as long as YouTube exists because she loves every aspect of documenting her life and sharing it with her audience. Whitfield expressed that she cannot wait to see where YouTube is in a couple years and believes many college students should give YouTube a try.

"People that have millions of subscribers all started with zero. If you don't start now you're never going to know what could happen," Whitfield said.

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