To My Chi O Sisters, Thank You For Filling Me With Joy

To My Chi O Sisters, Thank You For Filling Me With Joy

We put up with each other at 6 a.m. after a breakup, 2 a.m. for a chocolate chip waffle run.

Chi Omega is something I hold very close to my heart. I have spent a little over half a year with these amazing women and have encountered some of the most joyous, encouraging, high energy individuals I have ever met. This sisterhood is beyond special to me.

I can be in the worst mood of my life, but it is impossible to continue down the path of negativity when I am surrounded by a group of Chi O girls.

That being said, if I struggle with anything, lack motivation or need a little push--these are the women I run to.

The amount of genuine support and love I receive on a daily basis is very special, and I have never felt such an overwhelming amount of love and acceptance in my life.

I am very grateful to be in a sorority where every person I meet is so genuine and kind-hearted.

In high school, it would be impossible to stand in a single room and have such a high quantity of high-quality friendships that I have in my sorority.

Chi Omega honestly is my Utopia.

No matter how terrible life seems or how upset a situation makes me feel, the second I am in the presence of a sister my day immediately turns around.

Before joining this chapter I would have never guessed a single human being could literally transform my mood so quickly, but my friends truly are rock stars.

Sometimes I feel a little dull and lack inspiration. Sometimes it is extremely hard to push myself to get things done.

But I have so many incredible girls surrounding me that spend hours upon hours in the library, hold multiple leadership positions and responsibilities at once, and still, manage to succeed- so I can too!

If they can do something great, so can I. The inspiration constantly flows and I love it!

The energy in Chi Omega is beyond special.

My heart literally explodes with joy when I see my beautiful friends because I feel so thankful and lucky to know them.

Every girl I know in this chapter is so unique and beautiful and amazing for so many reasons. We are all so diverse but always come together to support each other until the very end, it makes my heart so happy.

We put up with each other at 6 a.m. after a breakup, 2 a.m. for a chocolate chip waffle run, or just after class to hit the gym together.

I can honestly say these girls fill me with so much joy and happiness and I do not know what I would do without them at this point in life.

It is only my freshman year and I cannot wait to see what the next three have in store for me because my times thus far have been nothing short of amazing.

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I'm The Girl Without A 'Friend Group'

And here's why I'm OK with it


Little things remind me all the time.

For example, I'll be sitting in the lounge with the people on my floor, just talking about how everyone's days went. Someone will turn to someone else and ask something along the lines of, "When are we going to so-and-so's place tonight?" Sometimes it'll even be, "Are you ready to go to so-and-so's place now? Okay, we'll see you later, Taylor!"

It's little things like that, little things that remind me I don't have a "friend group." And it's been like that forever. I don't have the same people to keep me company 24 hours of the day, the same people to do absolutely everything with, and the same people to cling to like glue. I don't have a whole cast of characters to entertain me and care for me and support me. Sometimes, especially when it feels obvious to me, not having a "friend group" makes me feel like a waste of space. If I don't have more friends than I can count, what's the point in trying to make friends at all?

I can tell you that there is a point. As a matter of fact, just because I don't have a close-knit clique doesn't mean I don't have any friends. The friends I have come from all different walks of life, some are from my town back home and some are from across the country. I've known some of my friends for years, and others I've only known for a few months. It doesn't really matter where they come from, though. What matters is that the friends I have all entertain me, care for me, and support me. Just because I'm not in that "friend group" with all of them together doesn't mean that we can't be friends to each other.

Still, I hate avoiding sticking myself in a box, and I'm not afraid to seek out friendships. I've noticed that a lot of the people I see who consider themselves to be in a "friend group" don't really venture outside the pack very often. I've never had a pack to venture outside of, so I don't mind reaching out to new people whenever.

I'm not going to lie, when I hear people talking about all the fun they're going to have with their "friend group" over the weekend, part of me wishes I could be included in something like that. I do sometimes want to have the personality type that allows me to mesh perfectly into a clique. I couldn't tell you what it is about me, but there is some part of me that just happens to function better one-on-one with people.

I hated it all my life up until very recently, and that's because I've finally learned that not having a "friend group" is never going to be the same as not having friends.

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Being The Last Friend To Turn 21 Isn't ALL Bad

All your friends have turned 21, but that is okay


You may think being the last one out of your friend group to turn twenty-one is the worst thing in the world, but in all honesty, it doesn't have to be. One of the biggest perks is that everyone of your friends can go out to the bars with you on your birthday. All the people who turn twenty-one first have to wait for people to be able to go out with them, but you get to celebrate your birthday with all of your friends.

Another huge reason you should feel okay with being last to turn twenty-one is thinking about all the money you are saving. The bars are expensive. When you don't go to the bars you are saving so much money because an average bar drink is about seven dollars. This being said seven dollars multiple times a night, multiple nights a week really adds up, so you are going to have to budget your money better.

You don't have to be the one to buy alcohol for everyone else. Having a ton of people ask you to buy them alcohol must get annoying at a point, and if you're the youngest out of your friends, no one will be asking you to do liquor store runs for them because they can all go already for themselves.

The biggest reason is that you can enjoy being young. You should still continue to enjoy going to house parties and just being able to hang out with friends without having to go to the bars. Spend these months before you turn twenty-one just being able to enjoy life without feeling obligated to go out to the bars all the time. You have a great excuse when you don't want to drink on a weekday to just stay in. This being said it will be your turn to turn twenty-one soon.


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