Hey, Lil one,
I want to start this by saying I have been praying for you. I don’t mean that in a superficial way; I have been sincerely praying for you and hoping your recruitment process is easy and exciting for you. From day one I’ve been praying you feel as at home and comfortable and in love with our sorority as I did.
Second, I want you to know no matter what, my family and I are going to love you. We are crazy, outgoing and somewhat overwhelming at first, but we are all so excited for you as the newest addition to our family.
You are already so loved and adored.
And, since I have such incredible role models to look up to, I know what it takes to be the best big I possibly can be. I promise you I am going to try my hardest to make sure you feel included and to make your transition to college as smooth as possible. I know I was originally really overwhelmed, and my big was a huge help to me; I hope I can be just like that for you.
My big is one of the best role models and friends. She has proven time and time again she is there for me and that she loves me like a little sister (pun completely intended). We have such a close relationship; she is my best friend, and I hope that our relationship mirrors that.
I can’t wait for our potential late night Chick-Fil-A runs and our movie nights watching cheesy chick flicks when one of us is sad and needs some cheering up. I can't wait to embarrass you with my crazy personality and constant dad jokes. I can’t wait to make you match for our family pictures on Reveal night. I can’t wait for you to get all of the t-shirts I’ve been hoarding for you and all of the canvases I’ve been tirelessly working on all summer.
I’m so excited for you to be a part of not only my family, but of our amazing chapter, and to see everything the future holds for you in life, college and your sorority experience.
Finally, I want you to know that no matter what, family comes first. I’m going to be there for the highs and lows always, and I promise that will never change.
Love always,
Your Future Big