Some New Year's 'Resolves'

Some New Year's 'Resolves'

A new perspective on 'New Year's Resolutions'

Every year we come up with pretty much, the same resolutions. “I’m going to go to the gym more”, “I’m going to eat better” …the list goes on forever! Coming into this new year, I want you to think about what you can only promise yourself, and what you can do to “close doors” that were left open from the last year. This New Year’s, try and make some ‘resolves’ rather than 'resolutions'.

1. Get on good terms with someone.

It can either be a falling out with someone, or a bad break up, or just for some crazy reason something ended with someone, it is always the right thing to do to become on good terms with them. It shows that you care, and it shows your true character (which is something people really can envy).

2. Take care of something you have been meaning to take care of.

We all have that one project or task that we keep on putting off. Like those halfway done paintings you have? Finish them! That storage room you have been dreading to continue on, finish it! You will have a weight off your shoulders when you do.

3. Pay off your debts.

This is a sticky one to say because debt can take forever to pay off, but if you have been meaning to return something that you have been borrowing forever, or owe a friend some amount of money, pay it back. Or, if someone did something very kind to you, and you are ‘in their debt’, then you should do something for them in return.

It’s always relieving when the New Year comes around, because we all have a fresh start at something. With solving our problems from the past, as well as making resolutions to better ourselves in the future, we are bound to become better versions of ourself each and every day.

Cover Image Credit: Megan Olivotti

Popular Right Now

65 Truths College Students Need to Hear Right Now

Truth every college student needs to hear.

1. The best memories are ones you actually can remember.

2. God isn’t going to ask you if you were in a top-tier sorority or fraternity at the gates.

3. You failed a test, not your life.

4. Numbers don’t define you.

5. That includes the number you see that is your grade.

6. Also, how much you weigh.

7. As well as if you are a “7/10” on a so-called “hot scale.”

8. Or if you can bench press 200 lbs. (@ all the guys at the gym, please chill.)

SEE ALSO: 7 Reminders Every College Student Needs To Hear Before The Semester Ends

9. Innocence is nothing to be ashamed of.

10. Neither are mistakes.

11. But learn from your mistakes. Mistakes can be lessons, which can be the biggest blessing.

12. Your metabolism isn’t what it used to be and that is okay.

13. You may not always understand what God is doing, but I promise He has a plan.

14. Every person you meet is battling their own struggles.

15. Life isn’t always great moments.

16. But you have to walk through the forest to get to the mountain top.

17. Your heart isn’t damaged. It is temporarily broken but it will be fixed.

18. However, the only one who can fix a broken heart is the one who created it.

19. So a cute boy or hot girl can’t put the pieces back together.

20. Neither can ice cream.

21. But ice cream can totally help.

22. Stop texting your ex. He/She is your ex for a reason.

23. Loving Jesus means loving people.

24. Loving Jesus also means loving the image of Him in the mirror you see.

25. Stop hiding your emotions. Stop crying in the bathroom or behind a locked door. You have people in your life who care about you.

26. Suicide is never the answer.

27. Breathe in, breathe out.

28. Do you feel your heart pump? Do you feel the air exiting your body? That is a sign you are here for a purpose. Your life is no mistake.

29. Just because you doubt, doesn’t mean you don’t believe in Jesus.

30. However, when walking on the water scares you, look to Jesus and keep your eyes on Him.

31. If you have the opportunity to go to school go. There are young girls around the world who would do anything to sit at the desk you are complaining about.

32. Don’t pick a career based on money.

33. However, I promise you can use any passion or gift to serve a purpose bigger than yourself if you allow yourself to give it to the One who gave it to you.

34. You don’t need pretty prayers to please God.

35. Talk to Him like you are talking to a friend.

36. Look for the good in everyone.

37. That includes the mean girl who no one likes. Chances are she is mean for a reason. Someone was once mean to her. Kill her with kindness.

38. Pray to have the Lord’s eyes. See people with love.

39. Try to have the Lord’s hands, always be reaching out to others.

40. Each morning, pray to have the Lord’s feet and go where He calls you.

41. It is a bad day, not a bad life.

SEE ALSO: What It's Like To Be A College Student In April

42. You don’t need a six-pack to find a man who loves you.

43. You need a spouse who will be able to look at you when you are 80, and wrinkly and maybe a little chunky, and you need him to love you then. If he loves you for your body and your hair, I promise he doesn’t actually love you. Looks fade, but love is eternal. Find someone who loves you like Jesus.

44. Do some squats.

45. But squat so you feel good about yourself, not to attract the opposite sex.

46. You are never too old to find a new hobby.

47. You were beautiful before someone told you.

48. If you don’t know if you are in relationship or not, leave. You deserve clarity, not insecurity.

49. You deserve friendships that are mutual.

50. The best Friday nights are spent with a puppy and food. It is okay to not always be social.

51. Stop worrying about whether your crush will text you back.

52. Stop over analyzing everything in general.

53. Pray for your future spouse.

54. However, also pray for your future bridesmaids/groomsmen. Some of the most influential people you may have in your life you may not have even met yet.

55. Storms bring strength.

56. And storms bring rainbows if you are patient and observant.

57. Stop Pinteresting your dream life and start living it.

58. The Bible is actually extremely relatable. Open it up. Read it.

59. Romans 8:28 “and we know God works for the good of those who love Him, who have been called according to His purpose.” God is on your team. He wants you to have moments of celebration. He has a purpose for you greater than your bad day.

60. Never forget what Jesus did for you on that cross. When he died for you, it was painful and brutal. It was ugly. It was love. Don’t let that truth ever become numb to you no matter how many times you have heard the story.

61. There is nothing wrong with carbs.

62. Study. And don’t wait for the night before.

63. Find someone who you can look up to.

64. Also, never forget that there is always someone looking up to you. Act like someone you would want your future children to be. Act in a way that reflects wisdom.

65. Smile more, you are loved by the one who hung the stars and painted the sea. He created puppies and carbs–yet still loves you more. That is something to celebrate.

College is tough and life is hard. You are going to have moments where all you want to do is celebrate life with your best friends, but you will also have moments where you just want to lock the door, ignore everyone, and have a good cry. Never forget that your worth comes from something greater than your Biology grade, and from Someone greater that the one who broke your heart.

You aren’t too cool for Christ in college. Christ is a necessity for you in your life. He can hold your hand during your heartbreaks and failures and celebrate with you when you get the text back or a passing grade in foreign language. He loves for you and cares for you more than your sorority or fraternity ever will.

So buy your books, do your homework, but never forget when you are walking to you 8:00 a.m. you regretfully signed up for, to look up. Look at the clouds and the sky and thank your creator that in a big big world with many beautiful things, He still loves our messy hearts even more. So this one is for the boys for the King. This life is for the One who laid down His life.

I promise college is more fun when you dance with your Savior. Follow His lead and let him take you on a journey where you can find your purpose. You may not know where you are going, but you do know who you are following.

So never forget that although classes may be hard, and your metabolism may be slowing down–God is still good. He turns our ashes into beauty and our trials into our testimony. Do life with your creator and I promise you that you will have more than you need.

Romans 8:28 “And we know God works for the good of those who love Him, who have been called according to His purpose.”

Check out my website for more articles on self-worth <3

Twitter: gracev96

Instagram: lemmebeyourvalentine

Related Content

Connect with a generation
of new voices.

We are students, thinkers, influencers, and communities sharing our ideas with the world. Join our platform to create and discover content that actually matters to you.

Learn more Start Creating

As Winter Approaches, So Does Seasonal Depression

The weather can affect our mood more than we realize.


I look outside, and the sky is gray, solid gray, no breaks in the clouds, no different shades, just gray. On top of that, it is cold and dark. I sit inside huddled under my blankets with a fuzzy sweater and fuzzy socks, and it helps, but I'm still cold.

As winter approaches, I think many are experiencing the same thing. I am in Chicago visiting family, but just days ago I was in warm, sunny, 80-degree Florida. It's a marvel what difference 1,000 miles can make when it comes to the weather.

Weather is a strange, funny thing that affects more than the outside or our physical bodies; it often affects our mood too, and more than we realize. I grew up in Chicago, so this weather was the norm for many months. The first few snows of the season were exciting. I loved waking up to a surprise of pure white powder blanketing the trees and grass. But then the months would drift on of cold dreary days with no green in sight, just gray and the occasional white.

After a while, my mood would change too, from bright and sunny to gray, just like the outdoors. It happened gradually, so I didn't always notice it right away. But slowly it would weigh on me. I would miss the flowers and the grass and going for walks by the pond. I would miss hearing the birds singing, but I often didn't notice something was missing until it returned in the spring, then I would perk up at the first birdsong and realize I hadn't heard that sound in months.

When it's dreary and cold and dark it's hard to be motivated. It's easy to want to hibernate, curl under your covers, eat piles of warm soup and hot cocoa, and sleep away the rest of the winter. If only we could do that, but we must work and do things. It didn't take long before the depression would set in. I would be down, and it would be hard to want to get out of bed in the morning.

This depression went on for years before I recognized what it was. It always happened every winter, and as soon as the weather warmed, or the sun came out I would feel better, so I realized it was the weather causing my depression. It turns out I wasn't the only one, many people get seasonal depression.

I realized that my mood was closely connected with the world around me, and nothing helped me more than being outside in warm sunny air, surrounded by green plants and animals. I think this is especially true for empaths, us sensitive people who are affected by our environment.

Once I experienced warm weather and realized I could skip winter altogether, I never wanted to go back. I could be happy and have fun all winter rather than be depressed. Moving to Florida was the best decision I made because it helped restore my sanity. I could enjoy being outside, where I feel most at home, all year round, rather than just half the year.

Seasonal depression is a real thing. It's not easy to have your whole mood affected by the whims of the weather and have no control over it. So please be understanding of those who do, including yourself if that's you.

Related Content

Facebook Comments