30 Wishes For My Sister's 30th Birthday

30 Things I Wish For My Sister On Her 30th Birthday

but you can probably guess what I wish for most.


Dear Sister, You've made 30 trips around the sun and I couldn't be more happy for you. It doesn't have to be your birthday for me to wish you goodwill, I do everyday but on this special day, I hope you know how much I love you and appreciate that I get to be your little sister.

1. I wish you the chance to have a perfect birthday morning. 

I hope you get the chance to sleep in and be woken up well rested and to a birthday breakfast complete with your favorite Dunkin Donuts coffee.

2. I wish you have the wisdom of someone 30 years old.

But I also wish you the energy of a 5-year-old to keep up with all the things you have to do to be the great mother that you are.

3. I wish you get a piece of tiramisu. 

Because let's be real it's way better than birthday cake.

4. I hope you get a million birthday wishes. 

Like so many that it takes you hours to reply saying thank you. In turn making you feel so loved.

5. I wish you something gold.

Cause well, you know.

6. I wish you get something hand made with love.

I hope you get cards colored in scribbles from little hands you love. I wish this because I know how much you'll treasure them and save them forever and there's no way that you would ever lose them.

7. I wish you peace.

These 30 years have not always been easy for you but I hope for one day at least you will feel no hurt, no pain, no regrets, no worry.

8. I wish you could watch the new Aladdin movie. 

Well really, I wish we could watch it together.

9. I hope you get something for yourself. 

Something special for you. Not something that is family related or to be shared but something you can be selfish with, without feeling guilty.

10. I wish you a full manicure.

Because you know, you feel your best when you have your nails done.

11. I hope you don't have too vacuum.

I mean, come on, how dare Cheeto and Sandy shed today!

12. I hope Dad calls you.

It's one thing to choose not to answer but it's an entirely different feeling to know you've been forgotten, especially by someone who is unexcused. Being familiar with that feeling, I hope unlike mine, he never forgets to remember yours.

13. I hope mom takes you shopping. 

VS, the mall, orange julius, the whole nine yards.

14. I wish you the day off work. 

Well, I just took a closer look at the calendar and your birthday actually falls on a Saturday so you should be in the clear.

15. I wish you find money on the ground. 

Because what is better than finding a dollar on the ground?!

16. I wish you feel like Jennifer Gardner

In the movie 13 Going On 30 all she wished for was to be "Thirty, Flirty, and Thriving." I hope you feel that way today and every day for the rest of your life.

17. I hope you miss my photo collage. 

I know you say all our pictures growing up are terrible but I love them so much. I wish that even if it's just a little or if it's just for a second, I hope you miss seeing them.

18. I wish you feel beautiful.

Because you are. Your shiny long dark hair, your tan olive skin, and big brown eyes. You have always been the prettier sister and set the bar really high.

19. I hope you know I love you 

This the most.

20. I wish you the best in this next decade.

Just like Tim McGraw sings, I hope your next 30 years will be the best years of your life.

21. I wish your pain away. 

Every single thing that has ever hurt you, I wish it away. I know I or anyone can't really give you this wrapped in a pretty box, but I do sincerely wish it were possible. At least, be able to take away all the pain I've inflicted on you.

22. I wish you could have a better sister. 

I've ruined your life for 26 years. I took away your position as an only child. I blamed you for everything I ever did wrong when I was little in fear of getting punished or hurt. As a teenager I didn't respect your space or things. As an adult I continued to f*ck up more.

23. I hope the sun shines for you. 

I wish your birthday to be one of those perfect sunny warm (but not hot) days.

24. I wish you knew how sorry I am.

For that one time I accidentally caught your hand in the car door. Or the time I promised not to tell mom you were smoking cigarettes on the roof and then immediately proceeded down the stairs to tattle. For that one Sunday that ruined everything.

25. I wish you were mad. 

I know that sounds bad, but I'd rather you be mad then not know how you are at all.

26. I wish you a fresh cracked coke. 

*Pulls tab, takes long sip, eyes water from carbonation* "Ahhhhhhh!"

27. I hope you get a back massage. 

Remember when we were little and convinced I was determined to be a massage therapist? Well, I suck at it actually so I hope you get a really good massage.

28. I wish you happiness. 

I know that's pretty vague but considering I feel like I don't know what makes you happy anymore, I'll just leave it open for you.

29. I wish you would forgive me. 

I know this one is hella selfish of me to say, but whether it's tomorrow or in 2 years or 30. I'll be here waiting and I hope that it's not too much to ask.

30. I hope you know I'll respect your wishes. 

I know right now you don't want me in your life and that is your choice and I have to respect that. I have tried reaching out and have been unsuccessful, but it's not about me anymore or it never was. It's about you and what you want.

So I hope you know I love you and I always will. I will never be more than a phone call away. I will continue to think of you every day and I will try to leave you alone but please don't think it's because I no longer care, I just have tried everything else and have exasperated my resources.

I miss being a part of your life, I hate that I have missed you turning 30, but mostly I just miss being your sister.

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To The Soon-To-Be College Freshman Who Think They'll Keep Their High School Friends, Know This

You will maybe talk to 10 people back from your high school while your in college.


I know what you are thinking "Of course I am going to still talk to all my high school friends once we graduate." "You just didn't keep up with your friends." "I am going to talk to them every day."

Of course, you may be the lucky ones that go on to the same college and university, but if you follow your best friend to college then have you ever thought to yourself. "Did I choose my school based on if my friend(s) would go to college together." Obviously, it could be coincidental that you end up in the same place, but my argument is more on the idea of having friends that go to the same college on your list of important things once you move away.

Now if you are still reading and still in denial with what I am saying then continue.

Since moving away from home I have broadened my horizons and met more people then I could ever have imagined. I have met people that if I have not kept an open mind to them I would not be friends with them now. You will most likely choose the same type of friends that you had in high school if you do not keep an open mind when finding friends in college.

You also do not want to be that person who refuses to make other friends besides their high school friends. I hate to break it to you, but your high school friends will find other friends beside you when they leave for college/university. This time in your life is supposed to be "a new chapter" if you do not branch out of your comfort zone then you will be stuck in a little bubble for the rest of your life.

Not only will your friends in your high school class be making friends, but you need to make friends that are in the same stage of life that you are also in. Still talking to high school aged friends will limit you from conversations due to distance, lack of relevance, and just not going through the same stuff as you.

Sounds daunting? I know.

I am not saying that you can not be friends still with your high school friends. From time to time I catch up with mine to see how the school is going for them, and how they are doing, but I am building and forming relationships with my friends at college because you have had to start up from ground zero, and will be forming a foundation until we graduate.

Even when you have broken it is nice to hang out with your high school friends and talk about the good old days. My point to you is to keep an open mind and to not get upset when high school friends have moved on and found their new friends from school just like you.

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When There Are Guns In The Home, Protection Needs To Be A Priority

"I'm not against guns or gun ownership...at all...but I am against innocent children being killed because of lack of safety and lack of responsibility."


Three stories. Three stories just this week I have read about children accidentally being shot as a result of careless gun owners. This is a giant problem in itself, however, the smaller problem within this is people need to start locking up their firearms, especially parents with small children in the house. If it is in a place that is easily accessible, then a child will find it and, most likely, use it improperly.

"Toddler suffers 'permanent, irreversible' brain damage after the accident when he found a loaded gun under pillow...

After reading this article in particular I was absolutely outraged by the lack of care and responsibility of these firearms. More so, I am even more perplexed as to why this gun was not only left out, but even worse, left out in the presence of a child. If this was an attempt at hiding the gun, the owner might as well leave it out on the kitchen table. Children are curious, especially at Na'vaun Jackson's age, four years old. They also have no knowledge of gun safety because they will not use firearms at this age. It was even easier for Na'vaun to pull the trigger that would cause him to change his life forever because the safety was off. The owner of the gun also claimed that he forgot that the gun was there. He had shot himself in the middle of the forehead between his eyes. Na'vaun has recently awoken from his coma and is expected to be brain dead, and will have to try to relearn how to walk.

"The boy took a gun from the car's console and accidentally fired it while his mother was outside, striking his sister in the head..."

During the few moments the children's mother was outside of the car trying to get it to startup, Millie's brother had accidentally shot her in the head, later killing her. The safety on the gun was not activated, therefore it was easier to be able to shoot the gun, especially for a child. Again, having a curious child, at four years old, who has no knowledge of gun safety and access to guns, it will lead to tragedy. It is said that he had grabbed the gun from the console and accidentally fired it.

"Investigators determined that a gun in the diaper bag accidentally went off, hitting Smith (father) in the chest and the child in the leg..."

I have so many questions after reading this article in particular. First of all, the gun was left in a diaper bag, which is definitely not intended for a firearm. Second, this incident happened in the parking lot of a Chuck E Cheese. Although I wonder why the gun was necessary for this trip to Chuck E Cheeses with his daughter, I am more focused on the fact that it was in a diaper bag.

Also, since we know the gun had gone off by accident, we know that the safety was also left off, like in the other cases mentioned. Simple steps to keep guns secured are often skipped for whatever reason, whether the owner is being lazy, doesn't think anything bad will happen, or even forgets. Unfortunately, this girl will have to survive without a father as he had recently passed away from his gunshot wound to the chest. His daughter is expected to make a full recovery.

I think it is important for us to realize that this is not only a problem with children, even adults, the owners themselves, can become victims of accidental shootings due to improper security. Whether it be lack of education in gun usage and safety, shortcuts are taken such as not activating a safety, or improper storage of a firearm, it is a problem which can easily be fixed. No new laws, stricter gun laws, none of that is necessary. What we need is for gun owners to be responsible themselves, to take the necessary care and precautions that come with owning a gun, especially with other people in the household.

In 2016, there were 495 incidents of accidental firearm deaths. Four hundred ninety-five people. That's 495 deaths which could have been prevented by activating the safety on the gun. 495 deaths that could have been prevented by receiving the proper training in gun safety. 495 deaths that could have been prevented by putting the gun in a safe, or even on a high shelf.

We are not doing all that we can.

So, what can we do?

It starts with you. You the firearm owner, you who knows someone who owns a firearm, you who has a voice. We must stop looking the other way when tragedies such as these strikes. We must also stop looking at the guns themselves and start looking at the owners who fail to properly care for these weapons. I'm not saying we should change the gun laws altogether. But what I am saying is we need to start taking more responsibility and care ourselves, these are weapons, not toys to leave out. I'm not against guns or gun ownership...at all...but I am against innocent children being killed because of lack of safety and lack of responsibility. This responsibility begins and ends with the owner. There are little things that can be done to prevent huge tragedies.

Keeping the safety on:

-If the weapon you own comes equipped with an external safety, it should always be left on when the firearm is not in use. -This should be done especially if there are small children in the house.

Lock up your guns:

-One of the most common tools used to lock up guns is gun cases or safes. This will ensure that the gun cannot be accessed as long as there is a passcode unknown to anyone but the owner.

-This way, the gun will be easily accessible to the owner and untouchable from any unauthorized user.

Educate any child in the house about gun safety:

-If kids who are around guns from a young age are taught about gun safety, they will know right from wrong when handling a gun, or will not handle that gun at all without an adult.

-This will prevent further accidents like the ones mentioned previously because if children are taught basic rules of firearms such as "never point a gun at someone" they will be less likely to have such a horrific accident.

Keep guns unloaded:

-In the event that the gun was not locked up safely and a child had found it out with the safety off, there is no risk in firing the gun if it is unloaded.

If we take some, if not all these precautions, we can save so many lives unnecessarily lost at the hands of irresponsibility. As we see, this is not only happening in one area, this problem is widespread and happens all over the United States. Luckily, these problems can be easily fixed, as long as we are willing. It all starts with you.

For more information on firearm safety, go here.

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