In today's world in social media you see plenty of #relationshipstatus #baegoals and #mcm or #wcw. But why do we not see more of #singleliferules or #singleisbetter?
Everyone is forced to think that being in a relationship is what everyone should be doing and can basically be described as a status symbol. A relationship should be something that you are ready for, not something for you to force.
When you are single from a new breakup that is something to be sad about right at the time. I mean you are probably feeling a million things at the moment, most likely despair and anger. That is 100 percent normal. But it should not stop you from having a good time. So put away the phone that has all of those saved pictures and messages. Stop Facebook stalking your ex and their new #boo because they are exs for a reason. They were not meant to be.
Sometimes this is hard to believe at the moment but trust me the #singlelife is better than what everyone makes it out to be on movies, TV shows and social media.
For one thing the world is your oyster now. So now you can go out and do whatever you want, whenever you want! You can stay in and read a book, catch up on TV, play some video games, start a group chat with friends or invite them over for a guys' night or a girls' night!
Or if you are more in the mood for an adventure, go on a road trip with you and some of your friends. Go somewhere new and discover new things for you to do. Go out shopping, with or without spending money, and enjoy some quality time with yourself or with friends. Or if you are not so into shopping, play a sport to lay off some steam.
See there are many amazing things that you can do when you are in the #singlelife again.
There is the problem of if you are in a relationship and do not want to be because you are afraid of what it would mean to be single again. Well I am here to say that IT IS OKAY TO BE #SINGLE!
If you are feeling that the spark isn't there anymore, you want to date other people, or just no longer want to be in that relationship that is perfectly okay, but it is not okay to sacrifice your happiness because you are afraid of being alone.
#singlelife is all about doing what you want to do because you have the opportunity to do so. I mean yeah you can do that with a boyfriend or a girlfriend, but not in the freedom that you can have now.
Being single is all about finding what you love to do and constantly striving to make yourself a better person. Being single is learning how to love yourself again so that someone else can love you the way that you love yourself. That is why the #singlelife is the #bestlife.