Why You Should Stop Waiting And Start Living

Why You Should Stop Waiting And Start Living

Start living your life. You will thank yourself.

For me personally, waiting is so much easier than doing.

Whether it be putting off school work, hanging out with someone I honestly would love to see, going to the gym, or making myself a healthy meal, no matter how greatly that one action would positively or negatively impact me I seem to think that I have all the time in the world to put it off. That I, a single being on this planet, could somehow have all the "tomorrows" that ever existed. That there will always be a tomorrow for me.

Well, it was not until recently that I stopped being ignorant and came to the realization that there might not always be a Monday to start your new diet or work out. There might not always be a Friday to go out with your friends to the movies or to the local Mexican restaurant. I was, and sometimes still am, the QUEEN of "I'll do that tomorrow" or "I'll start Monday". One day my sister finally says to me, "Kate, you have to stop living for the weekend and start living today." I laughed and continued to complain to her about how stressed I was with trying to balance a social life and maintain my grades. Meanwhile, she was in the same classes as me, was in a sorority, and maintained a flourishing social life.

It didn't occur to me until this past week that it is a choice to live how you want to live. No one was forcing me to spend all my time sulking about how hard my life was. No one was forcing me to stay in while everyone was going out to dinner with their friends. No one was forcing me to wait until the weekend. I chose my own path, and I have the right to change that path.

So, follow your path. Live your life now. You don’t have to wait until the weekends to experience your life. Bake cookies on a Monday afternoon. Turn on your record player and jam out on a Wednesday morning. Go out dancing on a Thursday night. You only have one life to live, so make it count.

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10 Things Someone Who Grew Up In A Private School Knows

The 10 things that every private school-goer knows all too well.


1. Uniforms

Plaid. The one thing that every private school-goer knows all too well. It was made into jumpers, skirts, shorts, scouts, hair ties, basically anything you could imagine, the school plaid was made into. You had many different options on what to wear on a normal day, but you always dreaded dress uniform day because of skirts and ballet flats. But it made waking up late for school a whole lot easier.

2. New people were a big deal

New people weren't a big thing. Maybe one or two a year to a grade, but after freshman year no one new really showed up, making the new kid a big deal.

3. You've been to school with most of your class since Kindergarten

Most of your graduating class has been together since Kindergarten, maybe even preschool, if your school has it. They've become part of your family, and you can honestly say you've grown up with your best friends.

4. You've had the same teachers over and over

Having the same teacher two or three years in a row isn't a real surprise. They know what you are capable of and push you to do your best.

5. Everyone knows everybody. Especially everyone's business.

Your graduating class doesn't exceed 150. You know everyone in your grade and most likely everyone in the high school. Because of this, gossip spreads like wildfire. So everyone knows what's going on 10 minutes after it happens.

6. Your hair color was a big deal

If it's not a natural hair color, then forget about it. No dyeing your hair hot pink or blue or you could expect a phone call to your parents saying you have to get rid of it ASAP.

7. Your school isn't like "Gossip Girl"

There is no eating off campus for lunch or casually using your cell phone in class. Teachers are more strict and you can't skip class or just walk right off of campus.

8. Sports are a big deal

Your school is the best of the best at most sports. The teams normally go to the state championships. The rest of the school that doesn't play sports attends the games to cheer on the teams.

9. Boys had to be clean-shaven, and hair had to be cut

If you came to school and your hair was not cut or your beard was not shaved, you were written up and made to go in the bathroom and shave or have the head of discipline cut your hair. Basically, if you know you're getting written up for hair, it's best just to check out and go get a hair cut.

10. Free dress days were like a fashion show

Wearing a school uniform every day can really drive you mad. That free dress day once a month is what you lived for. It was basically a fashion show for everyone, except for those upperclassmen who were over everything and just wore sweat pants.

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8 Simple Tips To Be Eco-Friendly That Don't Require You To Change Your Entire Lifestyle

Go the extra mile to go green.


Unfortunately, we live in a world where climate change hovers over our head. Nobody truly knows what to expect in the future; however, scientists have made many predictions of what's to come. According to the 2018 October report from the Intergovernmental Panel on Climate Change, based on observations and model projections, scientists concluded that if there's an increase at least of 2.7 degrees in the atmosphere by 2040, severe environmental consequences will occur regarding an increase in sea level and extreme droughts.

Climate change may seem like a daunting problem that's too big for one person to tackle. Nevertheless, it's important to realize that even our small actions can make a difference. When we readjust our life to be more environmentally friendly, we're helping the cause and we may even inspire others to do the same. As more people begin to join the movement, the bigger the impact will be.

In this article, I'll be providing simple tips to be more green. There's a common misconception that people have to perform extreme actions or major life adjustments to be eco-friendly (i.e. going vegan, not driving, etc.) This obviously isn't practical to do overnight. While some people may go to the extreme, it's important to be realistic, as well. Little actions still do justice, and I believe that these simple tasks can contribute to the bigger picture.

1. Have a recycling bin

We see recycling bins in many places, but not in our own home. Instead of throwing everything in a trash can, try to separate your waste. Have a second bin or large bag to throw away bottles and paper. This can easily be done in a home or in a college dorm.

2. Purchase reusable shopping bags

When people go shopping, especially grocery shopping, so many plastic bags are wasted. Using a large reusable bag, which can be bought at your local grocery store, will reduce the usage of plastic bags and it might even save you money. In places like Long Island, stores charge 5¢ per plastic bag used as a way to convert people to reusable bags.

3. Purchase a reusable water bottle

This one is not only an easy tip, but it saves you money, as well. Buying a reusable water bottle stops you from purchasing plastic ones. You can fill them up with whatever, wherever, and continue the rest of your day. Most colleges have filtered water fountains anyways, so this would also be doing your wallet a favor.

4. Switch up your mode of transportation

When you're going somewhere, try to pick an option that won't contribute to more air pollution. If your destination is a short distance, try walking to the place. It's a greener and healthier mode of transportation. For farther travels, try to resort to public transportation or carpool. The fewer cars there are on the road, the better it is for the environment.

5. Try to eat less meat

Like I said earlier, it's impossible to make drastic changes overnight; however, a small change is still a change. Readjusting your diet to consume less meat slows down animal agriculture, which is responsible for 18% of greenhouse gas emissions. So, instead of going for a meat dish, try opting for the vegetarian one.

6. Don't litter

This should be common sense, but unfortunately, there are people in the world who still throw away garbage on the side of the highway. If you ever find yourself wanting to throw away items in your car, during a road trip, etc., please wait until you find the nearest exit. Keep a bag in your car to collect any waste you may have and when you finally pull up to a pit stop, then you can get rid of your waste.

7. Purchase reusable straws

While reusable water bottles do a great job, sometimes devout iced coffee and iced tea lovers need to purchase their drink from Dunkin' or Starbucks. If you're going to buy a drink that requires a straw, don't head for the plastic option. Purchase yourself some metal straws and use that instead. It's a better alternative that decreases pollution in the ocean.

8. Turn off lights and running water

If you're not using something, you should always turn it off. When you're leaving a room or you're not currently using the running water in your bathroom sink, you should turn off your light and water sources to reduce the amount of energy used.

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