A Sensitive Soul In A World Of Hurt
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A Sensitive Soul In A World Of Hurt

There's a line between kind and defending yourself.

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A Sensitive Soul In A World Of Hurt
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When I was younger, I saw the good in people. I did not listen to the news because I couldn't bear to hear what people were capable of. Yes, I was a sheltered child, but I didn't care.

Fast forward, and people have changed my perspective. In this day and age, people might think you're weak to have a soft heart. I found that to be true for a while. Now? What's the problem with having a soft heart? Mine can be soft, but it is guarded. I don't trust people as much as I used to, nor do I care to. I still like to socialize every once in a while.

They say, "You're weak," or "Why are you sad? Pick yourself up. That's life." It doesn't have to be like that. People don't have to be cruel to each other. When people say, "Yeah, but they don't listen." Well, maybe it's because they never had anyone listen to them. It is hard breaking down someone's wall, but if you were to lose your job, house, or even loved ones, then kindness would be all you could maintain. Life isn't great. We all know that, but there's no reason for people to disrespect others.

Why should you feel ashamed of being sensitive? Being sensitive means having a kind heart. You want to see others do well but you also want yourself to do well. You might not like competition, I know I don't. You are beautiful and not many people can be kind or sensitive. Sometimes, it means you can express yourself easily through emotions or actions.

I do cry easily, I also get angry and annoyed easily as well. I guess I'm just a sensitive, sappy person. Again, I've always been ashamed of that but I no longer care. If people cat-call you, or try and pick a fight. I would simply say goodbye politely and with a smile. Then, get as far away as I could and if they follow me? A kick in the throat.

There's a line between being kind and defending yourself. I would not try to be kind to someone who is trying to harm me. In my mind, It's either me or them. I choose me.

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