Never in my life did I think that I would find a love like I have found in my relationship that I have now. I'm not one to write things that are sentimental and loving, but I just have to put it out there that fulfilling relationships are waiting for you-- they only tend to happen at the right time.
I think that every girl or guy should just understand that the person for you is out there. In high school I would see the people around me be in relationships and have their certain someone-- but most of the time those relationships do not last. People grow up, move away, and find a whole new set of people to hang out with.
When I started my college endeavors, I had no intentions of getting into a relationship. You could ask my close friends, I was happy with being by myself and independent as I could be. I was beating to my own drum (which I still do) and not looking for a relationship at all.
But, because life is unpredictable, that all changed. I started college and about a month in, I found the guy I hadn't actually been looking for. He literally walked up a staircase into my life. When I first met him I didn't know he was actually going to my forever guy, but it happened that way. I wouldn't change it for the world.
I didn't just stumble upon this guy, I feel like he was sent to me. I needed him, and he needed me. I feel like a lot of people that you talk to could agree that the person they know they are going to spend the rest of their life with kind of just waltz into their life unannounced. I was not expecting the love that I have been given, but I sure am glad he is around.
I have been given someone that I could not (and would not) want to go through life without. He is the best friend I could have ever asked for, and the time I spend with him is incredible. He constantly goes out of his way for me and helps me any way that he can. Loving him is so easy, and my whole family adores him for who he is. I couldn't imagine a better person to have been my life partner.
I'm so thankful that I have a person who makes saying goodbye so hard.
Each time he leaves I am so sad to see him go, but it makes me realize just how lucky I am. The love I have for him makes watching him go so bad, but I know that he will always come back and be there when I need him. I hope that each person I meet gets to experience a love like this in their lifetime, because it is incredible.
And, I promise, it will happen when you are least expecting it.