To My Future Roommate...
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To My Future Roommate...

I'm so excited to meet you

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To My Future Roommate...
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I'm so excited for move-in day and be able to come see you every day. But here's some things to know about me before we live together:

I don't party, drink, or smoke. 

If you want to go party, that's fine, but don't bring that to me. Don't pressure me to go with you, don't bring the drinks in our room, and don't smoke anything in our room. I'm going to college to focus on school and make something of myself, not to have the stereotypical "college experience".

I'm very sarcastic. 

I'm always sarcastic but not in a mean way. I know some people can't read or take sarcasm, but if you're roomed with me you have to be able to understand it.

I'm not the neatest, but I'm not messy. 

I know how to take care of myself, but I'm not a neat freak. I organize myself enough to know where my stuff is, but I may lose stuff every once in a while or forget I own a piece of clothing. I definitely fulfill my part in doing chores and taking care of things that are a shared responsibility. However, if you're looking for someone who is always going to have things down to a T, I'm not it.

I have a boyfriend in the military.

My whole world doesn't revolve around my Navy boyfriend, but he does play a big role in my life. I talk about him a lot, i have night where I miss him more than others, and there are plenty of late night calls and texts. I've met plenty of people who try to make me feel bad for dating someone in the military or try to make their problems sound worse than mine. With all that being sad, get used to me talking about him. If you have a boyfriend, I will always be up to listen to you talk about him and I will be so excited for you when you get to see him or he does something sweet for you.

If we have differing views, I don't expect to change your mind and I will never make you feel bad for disagreeing with me. 

I'm not the kind of person who has such a closed mind that I don't accept that people have different views than me. I know I'll be friends with people and interact with people who don't agree with me on things and I'm perfectly ok with that. If I try talking to you about a controversial topic and I give you my opinoin and you disgree with it, I won't try to change your mind "to get you on my side", and I will never make you feel bad for not agreeing with me.

I will more than likely vent to you a lot and about anything. 

I vent a lot. I'm the kind of person that if I'm having a bad day or something negative happens to me, I talk to someone about it. I can't just keep my emotions to myself, I like being able to talk about things to someone and I hope that me and my future roommate have a close enough bond that we become each other's new best friend.

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