In 2019, we are living in a society controlled by Instagram models and online influencers making money by promoting products they never even tried. Their edited photos and unrealistic lifestyles flood social media with the idea that we are only as good as our own feeds.
But what if our lives are more than just a photo of the good times sprinkled with an X-Pro II edit? By sharing only the highest points of our lives, we are telling the world that those high points are what makes us who we are.
As we ring 2019 in and the resolutions that we made start to catch dust in the back of our minds, we should make a driving effort to make social media real. Post those amazing pictures from your trip to Cancun, but post pictures of things that aren't so pretty. Maybe post about that time you woke up to your furniture completely destroyed and mangled by your new puppy, or the time you pulled an all-nighter to study for an exam.
Social media is setting standards on looks, relationships, and other aspects of our lives way too high. It's time for society to come to terms with the fact that no one's life is as perfect as their Instagram feeds.
In order to make this change, there needs to be an increase in positivity and openness throughout social media. Instead of judging that girl in your econ class for her edited photos, be kind. Place no judgment on anyone. Continue about your day because, in the end, her edited photo has nothing to do with your life.
Young adults have a nasty habit of gossiping and judging others when surrounded by friends. By sending someone's photo in your group chat and saying something negative, you are bringing unnecessary negativity into not only your life but others' lives. By creating an optimistic and positive environment around you, you will be more open to sharing the real you.
This new year, I challenge you to be the best you possible. This means being open and in touch with the good and bad parts of your life. This newfound positivity will be sure to create a catalyst for those you surround yourself with.
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