Why You Should Focus On Self-Love Today

You Are The Only One Who Will Put Yourself First So Take Time To Work On Your Self-Love

"Put yourself at the top of your to-do list, and everything else will fall in place."


Here's the thing, Love.... if you don't put you first, who else will?

Self-love is one of the most difficult things to internalize, in my opinion.

"Self-love is so important!"
"You need to love yourself before you can love anyone else!"
"You're the only one there for you at the end of the day!"

While all of those statements are very much true, and we preach it 24/7, how many of us actually implement it?

Self-love is something that you need to put action to in your own life. No significant other, family member or friend can do this for you. Self-love is all about learning to love yourself. The teacher is you. You need to find ways each and every day to learn to adore the good, and bad, parts of you. It all starts with you.

This isn't an easy process, either. You can just magically wake up one day and be like, "I love myself!" Don't get me wrong, you deff can have some of those days where you wake up feeling like a boss, but self-love is something that festers in your bones. It takes a while to condition your brain to love yourself, especially on your worst days.

Every day, take one step towards self-love. Take 15 minutes to walk and clear your mind. Read your favorite book. Take a long shower. Buy yourself that sweet treat you've been craving all day. One thing a day, even for 5 minutes, will change how you feel about yourself in the long run.

Self-love is something I struggle with every day. Some days I'll wake up feeling strong and determined, while others I just feel like going back to bed. But the one thing that keeps me going is that 5 minutes of "me time." A little self-love goes a long way.

"Put yourself at the top of your to-do list, and everything else will fall in place."

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Life Is So Much More Than Ourselves

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I hope people hear this loud and clear when I say that this generation of people and quite frankly our society as a whole has become one of the most selfish to date. I really hope people reading this don't take it as me calling people out, "throwing shade" or bashing humanity, I'm just trying to put out a call to action but in a more blunt way.

This generation subconsciously lives by the "me, my, mine" lifestyle. Everything is all about us, and what we want and immediate satisfaction or gratification from the things that we do in life. We always want someone to notice what we are doing, that we did it and we want to be acknowledged for it. Our wants and desires power so much of what we do and how we react to what others do and so on and so forth. Also, kind of piggybacking on that, we tend to believe or live by the idea that, "yeah it happens, but it's never gonna happen to me" which can be a major issue when it comes to decision making. This is because we don't think about how it affects anyone but ourselves, usually in the immediate sense rather than the long term.

With that being said it can become an issue when we choose to ignore the other things going on around us like, "oh, someone else will get it." and then things like the trash epidemic and the state at which our planet and country is in now. We have become so self-absorbed that it's to hell with everything else. The places that we call home and the world that we know is falling apart and we are all just gonna sit by and watch like nothing is happening.

I am tired of the mentality that we as a society live in, and how we try to desperately to look great on social media but do nothing about it in real life. It is time that things change and we are the ones changing it.

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