Online dating can be fun, mystical, and may even lead to happy, long-term relationships. It can also be dangerous, or disappointing, especially if you are not used to navigating the waters of the virtual world. So, if you find yourself willing to plunge into the online dating scene, you should first look over the following tips that outline the people you should most likely avoid while trying to find your new beau:
1. "The Self-employed”
This type of man may even be considered a “man-child” by some, and probably doesn’t have a steady career going for him. Of course, this may not be the case.
He could very well have a small, private business, or simply makes his money through unconventional means. If his tagline says something about 420, I think you may have a good idea as to what kind of guy he may be. Anyway, odds are if the man had a career, he would identify it.
So, if you find yourself talking to this type of man, try to figure out what he has going for himself. If he replies with vague answers that make him seem aloof, then there’s a good possibility he’s still trying to figure his sh*t out. No harm there, if that’s something you’re cool with.
2. "The Mystery Man”
The man with no photos whatsoever. Is he super secretive or just insecure? Is he trying to catfish you? Maybe you can start talking to a guy with no photos on his profile page, but don’t try to meet up with a man if you’re not sure what that man is supposed to look like. You should gain some facial identity from the man you’re engaging with online for safety purposes.
3. "The Everything But” Photos
*Sigh* Now, who doesn’t love the man that has photos on his profile page of literally everything but the snake between his legs? I’m talking about the guy who’s profile is so raunchy; you’re ashamed to tell your mother about him. Here’s the thing, if he’s sending you photos of his entire body with little discretion, he’s showing off and obviously wants to bang. Now, if that’s what you’re looking for, then darling go right ahead. If you’re looking for someone who can take you seriously, then please swipe left.
4. "The Man Without a Face”
This guy is probably BFFs with “The Mystery Man." Honestly, it’s creepier to post photos of just your clothed torso with your head cut out then it is to post nothing at all. So, if you come across a profile like those, carry on. Seriously, what is it that those guys have to hide? Is it worth figuring out?
5. "The Needy Stranger”
So, you start texting a guy, and things are going well. Then you stop for a little bit because of this thing you have called a personal life. He does not take kindly to that so he starts blowing up your phone, wondering about your whereabouts. Now listen here, this guy is a complete stranger to you. You’re online dating, not committing to a marriage. You don’t owe him ANYTHING. So, if he starts to become needy during the first phase of dating, then run for the hills. Run fast and don’t look back.