I Choose Joy, Every Day, Because It Feels Good

I Choose Joy, Every Day, Because It Feels Good

For instance, having the perfect amount of milk for your cereal.


I have to be honest. Life can really suck sometimes. We all have days we wish could've gone better. There are times when we look back and want things to be the same. We come across people and want to have their life because it seems better than our own. Despite all that, I choose joy over living in pain.

When I was in junior high, I was told a hard truth. I can either choose joy or I can choose to keep living in pain. After a while, I finally chose joy. Don't get me wrong. Life hasn't been all sunshine and happy songs since. In fact, it has still been hard. I don't let that block my view of positives.

I could wake up every day and proclaim it is going to be a bad day because of this or that or I can decide it's going to be a great day. I can take hard situations and find the good in them. I honestly believe joy comes out of nowhere. For instance, you're having a bad, and you find out you got an A on your test! It's a great day then, right?

I choose joy because I have found freedom in it. I don't know if that is weird, let alone, makes sense. I find joy in singing a song when it pops into my head. Breaking out into random dances makes me happier than I can explain, and I'm a terrible dancer! I choose joy over anger or disgust because I see pain all over.

I'm not going to lie. It was not a one-day thing. It took a while to choose joy daily. I went through a period when I wondered why anyone would choose it. However, I realize now how much happier and healthier I am because of it. When I encountered something personal and painful, I took the time to be patient. Joy is not something that naturally happens. You can't force yourself to be happy.

I now find joy in things people may never think about. For instance, having the perfect amount of milk for your cereal. Another one would be finding exactly what you need at the last second. Or my personal favorite, seeing a bunch of dogs in one day. Before, I would probably think you're insane if you find joy in milk.

I'm glad I get to see the world from a view not many people do. I hope one day, people all over the world, will find joy in the little things. I hope people no longer experience pain so thick they have no hope. That was me at one point. I challenge you to find joy in something unusual this week! It is beautiful when you realize the little things. Who knows, maybe you'll be able to share that joy with someone else!

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A Thank You Letter To My Parents

Because I truly don't say thank you enough.

Dear Mom and Dad,

There are not enough words to describe how thankful I am to the both of you. I know I don't show how grateful I am enough, but I really am. You both have taught me so much, and going away to college and being apart from you has made me realize how much you both mean to me.

Thank you for your endless amounts of love, even when I probably don't deserve it.

Thank you for all your support, no matter what.

Thank you for listening to me cry on the phone, no matter what time of day, and no matter what reason.

Thank you for listening to me rant, ramble, or just talk at you over the phone.

Thank you for editing my papers (even though I'm old enough to do that on my own).

Thank you for making me laugh when I'm sad.

Thank you for knocking some sense into me when I'm acting rash.

Thank you for the meals, the birthday parties, and everything in between.

Thank you for all the advice, even when I don't take it. You guys are always right.

Thank you for the "I love you" texts. They truly make my day.

Thank you for making me so happy.

Thank you for working so, so, so hard to be able to send me to college. That means the absolute world to me, and for that, I will never be able to repay you.

Thank you for giving me the life every child deserves, and being such wonderful parents. When I have children, I want to be just like you.

Thank you for always being there for me. Without the two of you, I don't know where I would be. I realize I do not thank you enough for everything. And for that, I apologize. If I have learned anything while being away from you, it is that you are the most important people in my life, and I love you both more than anything.

So, mom and dad... Thank you. For everything. I promise I will work hard to make you proud.

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To The Aunts Who Made Us The Women We Are Today

"My Aunt has ears that really listen, arms that hug and hold, a love that's never ending, and a heart made of gold." - Unknown


In my life I have my aunts that are truly my parent's sisters or sisters-in-law, then I have my cousins that I refer to as my aunts.

I may be weird for calling my cousins my aunts but they truly deserve that title. The amount of love and support my aunts have given me throughout my entire life is what made me be the women I am today. I could not and would not be who I am without their guidance and love.

They listen to me with open ears and no judgment.

They worry and care for me almost as much as my mother does. I am eternally grateful for God for giving me the wonderful aunts that I have because they bring such good energy to my mother and me.

My aunt that only lives a couple of houses away from me has always been there to help me with anything I ever needed and my mom has been there for my cousins the same way. I cannot thank her enough for giving me my best friend since birth and the girl I call my sister. I can call her later at night when I need something for a school project and we do not have what I need at home.

Aunts are so great because they are so reliable.

My school and sports teams do a lot of fundraisers, so having multiple aunts I can always count on them to order products from me. I also know if I'm ever stuck and need a ride, need somewhere to go, or someone to confide in they are right by my side. Having one God-Mother or role model in your life would be pretty great, but having multiple is more than fantastic.

My aunts are so important to me, I couldn't live with them.

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