My twenty-first birthday is almost here! I am proud of who I’ve become so far and I often forget that even though I am still super young, I am growing up very quickly. I’ve learned a lot and I think it’s essential for everyone to take time to appreciate some small realizations that occur within your first twenty-one years of living.

1. The Jonas brothers were NOT a phase

They will always be hot and you will always have a special place in your heart for them, regardless of how old you get.

2. Your mom is what makes your world go around

She is your best friend and you simply couldn’t do life without her.

3. You don't need a lot of friends

You really don’t. Your small group of 6 or 7 is PLENTY. Quality > Quantity.

4. There's nothing wrong with missing someone who doesn't miss you

Although you shouldn’t spend all of your energy wanting them or wishing them to be back in your life, I think there’s nothing wrong with missing the old times, or missing who they used to be.

5. Time doesn't heal all wounds

There are scars and battle wounds that will always hurt regardless of how much time has passed. Being an adult is trying to move past them, no matter how much pain was caused.

6. Your old Facebook photos will ALWAYS be cringe-worthy

Probably never going to look back at those 7th-grade waterpark photos and “reminisce”. So let’s just pretend those pictures don’t exist.

7. Everything will be okay

Even when you're 100% convinced that it won't be.

8. Half of your closet is black clothes

Black is definitely the most flattering color for anybody and always goes with every accessory!

9. Not everyone is going to like you

And hey, you’re not going to like everyone either. You don’t need to impress anyone, and at this point in your life, you’ve learned to let it go.

10. Being the bigger person is hard but it's worth it

You’ll feel better about the situation knowing you did whatever you could to make it better in any way.

11. You should never apologize for the way you feel

12. Life doesn't owe you anything

And on the other hand, no one owes you anything. You better work, bitch.

13. Naps are always worth it

No, you're not lazy. You're tired. So take the damn nap.

14. Failure is bound to happen

Success is built on failing. Embrace it and learn from it, don’t fear it.

15. Everything happens for a reason

It's as cliche as it is true.

16. Take a personal day every now and then

You deserve to treat yourself, and your mental health is SO important.

17. YOU CAN FINALLY LEGALLY DRINK

No more getting kicked out of places because you’re underage, or using a fake ID. You’re legal now! Get out there and have some fun!

Here's to being 21!!