“Single” has different connotations to everyone- for some people, the thought of being single is filled with thoughts of dread and loneliness, while for others it’s absolute panic.

While numerous people do not like the prospects of being single, I know I can’t be the only one out there who absolutely LOVES being single. I think it’s one of the more vastly underrated positives of life, and I can say that with absolute sincerity. Being single has its perks, even if it means having to buy your own food. (YES, that was a joke). With that being said, here are 5 realities of a newly perpetual single girl, and here’s why I love the independent life.

1. Starfishing the bed.

While this might seem silly, it might be my favorite reality of the single life. If you’re anything like me, you have the hardest time sharing a bed with someone because you NEED to be able to move around. Being single means you can starfish the bed every night, sleeping diagonally, upside down, whichever way you want without worrying about accidentally punching anyone in the process. (True story and I’m still so sorry).

2. Endless opportunities.

To preface this, YES you experience freedom and opportunities when you’re in a committed relationship, however, it involves another person as an extension of yourself. This is different.

When you’re single, there is a new opportunity around every corner. New people, new experiences, new places, you name it. You can pick up and drive halfway across the country on a whim if you want, all without having to worry about someone else in the process.

3. Saving money.

Treating yourselves as a couple can get expensive, and the weight of that should not fall solely on the guy. Meals, Christmas presents, and birthday festivities add up quickly and when you’re single, that cuts in half if not more. Take that extra money you’re saving and go treat yo self to something that makes YOU happy and try building up your savings account in the process.

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4. Absolute independence.

When you’re in a relationship, as independent you are as an individual there is still someone else in your life you bounce ideas off of, rely on their opinions, and take into consideration their thoughts/feelings/emotions on every subject. The greatest reality I've faced being single is being one hundred percent independent. I do exactly what I want to benefit myself, and I don’t have to think about any repercussions or worrying I may have negatively impacted or inconvenienced my significant other in any way.

5. Learning to love yourself, on your own

Being single means you are your sole supporter and cheerleader. You learn to love yourself more fully without the positive push from a S.O. Growing on your own and learning more about yourself and what YOU want is the most empowering part of being single. You learn that you don’t need someone to rely on because being on your own is more than enough. You may even be a better person for it.

It’s so easy to feel down and lonely being single, but don’t forget about the positive realities that come with it. Every single day is an adventure, and loving on yourself is worth more than anything else. Stay positive and treat yourself.