The 12 REAL Truths Of College Life Nobody Told Us To Expect Or Just Flat-Out Lied About

The 12 REAL Truths Of College Life Nobody Told Us To Expect Or Just Flat-Out Lied About

Sorry kids, but college just ain't like the movies.

After experiencing a full semester of college, I can tell you one thing:

99.9% of the things I was told about college ARE NOT TRUE.

While most of the stereotypes do exist, they are extremely glorified in movies. And when I say extremely, that's an understatement. Legally Blonde, Sydney White, Monsters University, and other movies set in the college culture make college seem like it's just partying and greek life. However, I'm here to tell you the real truth about college.

But also keep in mind that I am a huge nerd in the honors college that is taking 18 credit hours. So I don't really get to leave my dorm room or the library that much, but I am really observant, so I feel like my thoughts are still reliable.

1. You have no time to function as a normal human.

The majority of the time, I forget that food, water, and sleep are things that I need in order to survive, so I literally have to schedule in time for eating, drinking water, and sleeping. It's really hard to juggle academics, social life, necessities, and sleep at a consistent and well-balanced level.

2. The "party life" is really anticlimactic.

I went to one frat party, and I hated it. I don't think I have ever hated going to an event more in my entire life. I hated the atmosphere and how everything seemed to be sticky. Literally everything. Half of the people were blacked out drunk, and I just don't see the point in that. You don't remember anything that happened to you, so you don't even know if you had a good time. Also, frats are sexist as h*ck. This is just in my opinion and my experience, so I am not trying to trash all greek life. But when I was at the party, all girls got in for free and guys had to pay $20 to get in. While this did work out in my favor financially, I kind of felt objectified. I can't fully describe why, but I just really hated the atmosphere.

3. Classes and the material are indeed hard.

There are no easy classes in college. They are all hard in their different ways, so I definitely would not suggest going into any of them thinking you're the almighty ruler of that subject.

4. Homesickness doesn't really happen.

There's no time for it!!!

5. College football games are quite boring and uneventful (no offense!!!)

I wasn't an avid sports fan from the beginning, but I found college football to be 10 times more boring than high school football. No one seemed into the game, a ton of people left after halftime, and the game stops every five seconds. How is anything going to happen if you keep stopping it?! I just don't get it.

6. People are actually nice to you.

I haven't met a single person that has been rude, and I haven't seen anyone being rude, at least in public. Everyone is super chill and outgoing in class, which is really nice.

7. Literally no one has their sh*t together.

I can guarantee that every college student has at least two existential breakdowns a week. Most likely more.

8. Not that many people miss class from being hungover.

Most people are just sleeping in honestly. Finding time to sleep is like finding a precious and rare diamond in college. When you find it, you cherish it and milk it for all that it is worth.

9. Dorm life is NOT luxurious.

You are basically living in a tiny box. Yes, you get some more independence, but then you realize there's no one to cook you things or do your laundry or clean your room. Before you know it, it looks like an atomic bomb went off in your room and you can't even find your bed. And personally, I feel constantly claustrophobic in here.

10. Greek life doesn't actually rule the campus.

I mean you do see the typical letters on shirts and bags, but it's not thrown into your face. There's also no almighty ruling frat or sorority on the campus, at least none that I have witnessed. And I feel like I would have witnessed them by now.

11. Changing your major isn't a bad thing.

You've just got to find the right fit for you! If changing your major 4 or 5 times leads you to that, it's okay! Granted you might have to do an extra year, but it's the right thing to do if it is what makes you the happiest. If you aren't happy with your major, change it to what will make you happy. You'll enjoy your education so much more if you're passionate about the subject.

12. The best classes are the hardest.

In my bio class first semester, I actually thought I was going to die. The material was beyond difficult, but it challenged me. It made me figure out how to study and not procrastinate, and believe it or not, enjoy what I was learning. I felt so accomplished after I got a good grade that I went around and told other people what I learned about. Also, This class helped me figure out my career goals, which I would never have expected. So don't give up on a hard class. Ride it out and try as hard as you can because you earn so much more from it.

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An Open Letter To Those Not Graduating On Time

Graduating college in any number of years is an accomplishment to be proud of.

To the person that isn't graduating on time,

It sucks, and I won't lie to you and tell you it doesn't. The day you walk out of Advising, head hanging down because you aren't going to finish in four years, makes you feel ashamed of yourself. You did well in high school; you were always told you were smart, expected to be smart, so why couldn't you make it out in four years like you were supposed to?

You know you're going to have to tell your family, so you begin preparing yourself for the worst reactions possible. And telling your friends you won't be graduating with them will only add to that sense of hopelessness.

Soon, you'll see photos and posts from people you left high school with, talking about graduation and the wonderful lives they are about to begin in their new careers. You'll wonder how they did it, and you'll feel like a failure.

But you're not.

Graduating from college is a huge deal. It really is. And it will be no less of an accomplishment in five, six, or 10 years.

"According to the Department of Education, fewer than 40 percent of students who enter college each year graduate within four years, while almost 60 percent of students graduate in six years. At public schools, less than a third of students graduate on time."

Things happen. You might change your major. You might have financial troubles. You may take a year off to figure out exactly what you want to do. That's okay. Take all the time you need. The real world and your career will still be there whenever you graduate.

Guess what else. Your family will still love you, and your friends will still support you. Give them some credit. Your loved ones want you to be happy and successful. Don't get me wrong, they may be upset at first, but give them a chance. Odds are, when the emotions settle, they will go right back to asking how classes are going. And when you do get the news that you'll be graduating, they will celebrate with you, and they will be there in the crowd, waiting for you to walk across that stage.

Graduation will happen. If you attend your class and study hard, it will happen. There is no reason to rush. Just do your best. Try your hardest. Take classes when you can. Just by doing that, you're doing more than so many others are able to do.

"Among 18 countries tracked by the OECD, the United States finished last (46 percent) for the percentage of students who completed college once they started it."

You'll get there. Take your time. Enjoy your classes. Find new interests. Study what you love. Embrace opportunities. Study abroad. Take that weird elective class. This is your time to take in everything the world has to offer. Take advantage of that. You'll graduate when you graduate, filled with pride and wisdom. And when they call your name, and you walk across that stage, hold your head up high, because you've earned every bit of your degree.

Graduating from college takes countless hours of studying, long hours in the library, and a tremendous amount of dedication. Don't add pressure to yourself by setting a timer. It is completely okay to graduate when you graduate, and it is still something to be proud of.

Best Wishes,
A woman who is finally graduating

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Things I Miss Now That I'm Home From College Again

There are so many reasons to be glad that the school year is over, but if you've done it right... there are a lot of reasons to miss it too.


So, school is over now and I've come home. As expected I was so relieved at first. No more showering with flip-flops, no more listening to screaming girls running up and down the hall, and a space that is mine and mine alone. But after a week or so of being back, there are a few things I've already started to miss.

I know that not every single person has the ideal roommate but I got really lucky with mine. Coming home I was excited to have my own space, but now when I'm doing my midnight scrolling, I'm realizing that I miss being able to talk to her about the funny things I see in that very moment. Tagging, DMing, and texting her doesn't feel the same as a long night of giggles spent together.

Also, while seeing old friends when you get home is amazing, and there is always a lot to catch up on, you do start to miss your other friends too. Being in college means that your friends are going through similar things as you are all the time. You have tests together, clubs together, and sometimes you spend way too much time procrastinating together. The bond you begin to form is one you definitely begin to miss - especially when you guys don't live close off of campus.

Coming home also means you don't have a set schedule or at least not immediately. You may come back to a previous job and that puts something on your calendar, but the free time you still have during the week can be a little too much. I know I've spent way too much time obsessing over the Tati/James drama than I ever would have at school. The routine I had at school kept me busy and entertained, and I'm honestly missing it a lot right now.

There are a lot of other things to miss too - even things you thought you wouldn't. You miss the classes, the teachers, and sometimes the food. I know I miss the environment. It isn't a perfect one, but it's full of people just trying to find their way. We are all working through the roller coaster of life and we are all stuck on one beautiful campus together while we figure it all out. I miss meeting new people at the bus stops or running into old classmates and catching up.

I guess the bonus for me is that I just finished sophomore year which means I have more time to spend at school. Come senior year, I guess I'll have to learn quickly how to deal without the things I miss - and also create a schedule so I can travel to see all of my friends, but those are all problems for future me.

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