I am not in a serious relationship, nor have I ever been, but one thing is for sure that I am ready to get married. With that being said, I am not out looking for a husband or even a boyfriend at the moment.

I want to take this time to grow as a person, but I am in a place where that can be an option for me.

I am in a place where if the right guy comes along and wants to get married, I would.

I used to have this idea when I was younger that I needed to be married before I'm 30. I am not in a hurry to get married before I am 30, but I am mature and secure in myself that I can get married.

I am the kind of person who has been dreaming of her wedding ever since I was 5 years old. That's because ever since I can remember I have been in a wedding in some type of way. That is what made me fall in love with weddings, but also the idea of getting married.

Now I am at the point in my life where people that I grew up with are getting married and that has only farther my interest in my own wedding. It has made me more interested in planning my wedding and what I want to happen at my wedding.

I have imagined what kind of dress I want to wear and color. I know that I want to wear a Ball gown or an A-Line dress and I am going back and forth between a blush color or ivory dress. I know what time of year I want to get married and the top five places that I want to get married. I know I like how Spring/Summer weddings look and I really want to get married in the summer. I know that I want to get married in one of the most famous country clubs in the United States.

I have plan my own wedding to the point that I know where I want to get married and what season. I have this idea of the kind of guy that I am supposed to marry, but it's not set in stone. I have an idea of what his personality would be like. I know that I want someone who will support me as much as I will support him.

In the past few years, I have learned a lot about myself. I think becoming more secure in the person that I am has something to do with my readiness to get married. I feel that I need to be secure in who I am in order to be successful in marriage. In order to be happy in a marriage, everyone needs to feel secure in who they are. If you are secure in yourself than the marriage will define you and that can lead to some issues in the marriage.

I don't want the marriage to define me as a person, I want to know who am before I get married.