I'd Rather Take The Path Less Traveled

I'd Rather Take The Path Less Traveled

Why I'm Leaning Towards The Unfamiliar

I've always been told to follow my dreams. But, what if my dreams are a little complicated?

For as long as I can remember, I've had this intense passion. Writing has always been apart of my life, and although I've tried to deny it, I think I've always known that someday it would intertwine itself with my future career ambitions. So, although I've tried to deny it, I think it's blatant that I can't ignore it any longer.

I hear God calling me. He is calling my heart to write about His love, mercy, and magnificent wonder. But, He is also calling me to use my hands and heart to design for His Kingdom. So, I find myself at a crossroads. Do I take the path that is easy? Do I choose one love over another? Or do I venture down the path less traveled? Do I run full speed down the unknown path, where few have dared to wander?

I've spent countless hours, countless nights, and I've had countless conversations in regards to these questions. And it all comes down to this; Does one passion, one love, one gift from God outweigh the other? The answer, isn't simple. But, I think I've come to a decision. I'd rather take the path less traveled.

I'm not sure if it's the right decision in the long run, but for now, it's where I believe God is leading me. He beckons me towards the path less traveled. He is calling me to pursue a career that isn't common, that isn't the norm. He is guiding me towards a future I never expected.

I love to write. But I also love to design. So, with God's guidance and His never ending support, I hope to combine my two passions. I may not know how I'm going to get there, or how it's even possible. But, I know that if I give God the pen and open my eyes to opportunities He will place before me, I will one day find myself in a job where both my passions burn bright.

It may seems strange, and it's definitely terrifying, but I'd rather take the path less traveled.

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I'm The Girl Without A 'Friend Group'

And here's why I'm OK with it


Little things remind me all the time.

For example, I'll be sitting in the lounge with the people on my floor, just talking about how everyone's days went. Someone will turn to someone else and ask something along the lines of, "When are we going to so-and-so's place tonight?" Sometimes it'll even be, "Are you ready to go to so-and-so's place now? Okay, we'll see you later, Taylor!"

It's little things like that, little things that remind me I don't have a "friend group." And it's been like that forever. I don't have the same people to keep me company 24 hours of the day, the same people to do absolutely everything with, and the same people to cling to like glue. I don't have a whole cast of characters to entertain me and care for me and support me. Sometimes, especially when it feels obvious to me, not having a "friend group" makes me feel like a waste of space. If I don't have more friends than I can count, what's the point in trying to make friends at all?

I can tell you that there is a point. As a matter of fact, just because I don't have a close-knit clique doesn't mean I don't have any friends. The friends I have come from all different walks of life, some are from my town back home and some are from across the country. I've known some of my friends for years, and others I've only known for a few months. It doesn't really matter where they come from, though. What matters is that the friends I have all entertain me, care for me, and support me. Just because I'm not in that "friend group" with all of them together doesn't mean that we can't be friends to each other.

Still, I hate avoiding sticking myself in a box, and I'm not afraid to seek out friendships. I've noticed that a lot of the people I see who consider themselves to be in a "friend group" don't really venture outside the pack very often. I've never had a pack to venture outside of, so I don't mind reaching out to new people whenever.

I'm not going to lie, when I hear people talking about all the fun they're going to have with their "friend group" over the weekend, part of me wishes I could be included in something like that. I do sometimes want to have the personality type that allows me to mesh perfectly into a clique. I couldn't tell you what it is about me, but there is some part of me that just happens to function better one-on-one with people.

I hated it all my life up until very recently, and that's because I've finally learned that not having a "friend group" is never going to be the same as not having friends.

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It's starting to hit me.

I've been in school, year after year, since kindergarten. Maybe even pre-school!

Now, I'm about to graduate with my bachelors in communication and I couldn't be more proud of myself. I'll say it. I often sugarcoat it or suppress it but d*mn it. I'm going to applaud myself. It was hard work. It took a lot of motivation, determination, (caffeine), and willpower to get to where I am today. I worked my ass off.

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