Let's Get #MuteRKelly Going

Let's Get #MuteRKelly Going



Robert Kelly or better known by the name of R. Kelly is a singer/rapper of the 2000s. If we want to be technical he had been a huge influence to R&B; during the '90s and us babies heard plenty of his songs during the 2000s. I mean, who couldn't forget about his opera style series titled "Trapped in the Closet".

Let's just say his career has been great but it's also coming along with the bad. In the early millennium, he had been caught making a sex tape with a girl who was fourteen at the time. If that isn't bad enough, he had married singer Aaliyah when she was fifteen (They lied and said she was 18) and he was twenty-seven. The marriage was short-lived but his reputation was going to change.

The Lifetime Network had aired a series titled "Surviving R. Kelly" which brings women to light. The scandalous part about it, however, is his treatment to women, mostly to young girls. It isn't a surprise that he is clearly a pedophile considering that he made a sex tape with a girl who was old enough to be his daughter when he was pushing thirty.
The women who spoke were women, really young girls when they met him, his former friends and his ex-wife.

Enter #MuteRKelly. This is a movement in order to silence his music so that no one ever has to face him again. How about we talk about the women he has hostage in different places? His so called girlfriends are being physically, mentally and sexually abused just like all the others before them. He forces them to cut off their hair, they must lower their head when a man enters the room, they dress like a boy. The list goes so far as to asking him when they can eat, shower and even use the bathroom.

It makes perfect sense though, go back and listen to a few of his songs. One of his early hits called 'Bump and Grind' is very suspicious. The video alone shows an audience full of girls and I mean girls, not women. They all look like they should be in middle or high school and he was still in his late twenties. R. Kelly hung around high schools to find girls, he scouted the mall to find young women. The beginning lyrics go, "My mind is telling me no, but my body is telling me yes". You should have listened to your mind to begin with.

The doucseries exposing him and I personally was at shock and disgust. Trust me, when Ignition comes on I always jam out but now I'm really starting to question it. Let's put it this way, people have even begun spinning his lyrics into something that fits this situation and it gets extremely strange.

R. Kelly should pay for what he's doing. He should pay for marrying Aaliyah at a young age. He should pay for making a sex tape with a female who was still a virgin at the time. He should pay for Andrea Kelly and locking her up during their marriage. The names go on, there is at least twenty women who have been affected and I'm sure a lot more. This series should be an eye opener for people. For now, all we can do is #MuteRKelly because should be coming to him soon.

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Just Because I'm From Hawaii, Does Not Mean I'm Hawaiian

My residency is not my race.

Let me start off with a few things about myself. I am a first generation American who is primarily Filipino, Spanish and Hungarian. With that said, I am a woman of color, who frankly, looks all white. I was born and raised on the North Shore of O'ahu, but currently live in the mainland.

Now, let me tell you a little bit about Hawai'i, because I'm sure you don't know much about it since it's only given like, a paragraph of recognition in our history books. The Ancient Hawaiians traveled by canoe for thousands of miles using only the stars to navigate and found themselves in the Hawaiian Islands. They settled and their culture spread throughout the mountains and shores.
In 1778, Captain Cook "discovered" the islands, despite the thriving population residing there (he can be compared to Christopher Columbus). In the 1830s, the Sugar Industry was introduced, bringing a diverse range of immigrants from China, the Philippines, Japan and many other countries to work on the plantations, creating the diverse and ethnic population that makes up the islands today. In the 1890s, Queen Lili'uokalani (lily-oo-oh-kah-lah-nee) was imprisoned in an upstairs bedroom of her palace and soon after, the monarchy was overthrown. Hawai'i became a state in the 1950s.

With all of that said, we can now discuss an issue that I have realized needs to be addressed.

Since I moved to the mainland, I have had many encounters where people assure me that I am Hawaiian, despite my rebuttals that I am definitely not. The conversation usually goes something like this:

Them: "So you're from Hawaii, are you Native Hawaiian?"

Me: "Oh no, I'm Filipino, Hungarian and Spanish."

Them: "No, I mean, were you born and raised there?"

Me: "Yeah, but I'm not Hawaiian."

Them: "Yeah you are. It's the same thing."

No, it is most definitely not the same thing. If you were in Japan and saw a white person or any person not of Japanese descent, would you ask if they were Japanese simply because they lived there?
No, you wouldn't because you should know that residency does not equate descent. Sure, you might be curious and ask, but if they told you they weren't Japanese, you wouldn't try to convince them that they are. As I mentioned, Hawaii's population is made up of a ton of immigrants, and just because someone's family may have been there for generations, they are still not Hawaiian unless they actually have Hawaiian blood.

Not only do people assume that I am Hawaiian simply because I am from there, but they will continuously say that I look Hawaiian even if they have no idea what someone of Hawaiian descent looks like. Hawaiians are people of color, as are many of those who reside in the islands. However, as I previously mentioned, I do not look like a person of color even though I am, so why would you associate me, a seemingly full white person, to be Hawaiian? It makes no sense.

There are many things wrong with choosing to misidentify an individual or a group of people.
One, is that by you convincing yourself that I am something that I am not, you are diminishing who I am, and how I identify myself.
Second, you are creating an illusion based upon your own desires of who Hawaiians as a people are.
Third, by using me specifically, you are whitewashing the image of an entire race. I could go on, but there is not enough time in the world to name them all.

Their culture has been reduced to leis, aloha shirts, surfing, and tiki torches. Aloha has become a household word used by people who have no understanding of what Aloha truly means. Girls go as hula dancers in an effort to show skin on Halloween without any second thought. Please stop. We cannot continue to misidentify, appropriate and basically erase Hawaiian culture, just as has been done to the Native Americans.

Hawaiians have already been stripped of their land. I will not allow them to be stripped of their identity as well.

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Believe It Or Not, Being The 'Model Minority' Is Not A Privilege

Asian-American history is not something that is widely known or talked about, and for that, Asian-Americans are perceived as more privileged than other minorities.


The topic of racism is one that is very much prevalent in the United States. However, in conversations about racism and marginalized groups, it seems that Asian-Americans are often excluded. The Asian-American experience is different from that of other minorities, with the model minority myth being a major contributing factor. While being viewed as a "model minority" may not seem like such a bad thing for Asians upon first glance, being a model minority does not equate to privilege.

There is a notion that Asian-Americans have suffered less from racism, and that they are privileged compared to other minorities. From elementary school, American students learn about Native American genocide and the history of racism against African Americans, but Asian-Americans rarely appear in any US history courses. They are not shown to have suffered a long history of systematic racism in the United States as other minorities have. Asian-American history is not something that is widely known or talked about, and for that, Asian-Americans are perceived as more privileged than other minorities.

Here's the issue: just because it isn't talked about, just because it isn't taught in school, doesn't mean it doesn't exist. Discrimination against Asian-Americans is a part of American history, from the Chinese Exclusion Act, which was the first immigration law to target a specific ethnic group, in 1882, to the Japanese internment camps in the 1940s, to the murder of Vincent Chin in 1982, in which the murderers served no jail time, to the issues of media representation that still exist now. This is a history that has seemingly been erased and brushed to the side so that Asians can be used as the model minority.

I'm not asking that everyone become an expert on Asian-American history. It's enough to know that it exists, and that Asian-Americans are still a racial minority in the United States and still suffer from racism. Instead of dismissing them as privileged, acknowledge that Asian-Americans have faced discrimination and include them in conversations about racism.

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