It's 2019 and it feels like time is passing by so quick, we have to press pause sometimes. The friends you've known since middle school are getting married and having kids before you guys graduate college. Your weekend calendar is now filled with engagement parties, wedding weekend events, baby showers. Your the aunt of your "Framily" and you're cool with it. But you can't help yourself but ask this question in your head. What am I doing wrong? Why am I still single? Do I still have time?
It's crazy to ask this at the beginning of your twenties, the time where you're suppose to be living your best life. But now we're thinking about when we're going to give our parents some grandkids. We have our degrees and we got our apartments in the city but we want more for ourselves. Personally, I didn't have these thoughts until this year where my friends from college are getting married and I'm the bridesmaid that wants to set me up with the best man. My friends who are in relationships are now the ones giving me advice of why I'm single and what I need to do to get a man.
This is to all my ladies out there who have been the firth wheel on group dates or spent Friday nights in bed with your Cookout and Netflix. It's okay to be on your own. we don't have to settle for the rest of the world. This is the time of your life and being on your own for a while is dope. Go have your adventures, try new places, go take yourself out on a date. When the right guy or girl comes around, it'll happen naturally.