I Prefer City Life SO Much More Than Suburban Life

I Prefer City Life SO Much More Than Suburban Life

Yeah, it's a pretty biased perspective.


I've lived in Queens, New York my whole entire life, with the Big Apple just a 45-minute commute on the A train. I grew up seeing halal food carts on every few streets, meeting lots of people of different ethnicities and backgrounds and hearing New Yorkers scream profanity at each other for the smallest things (like bumping into one another while speed walking in the same direction). I also grew up with my neighbors living so close to me, they can literally hear when I sing in the shower.

Since I've lived in this environment my whole life, I've often taken it for granted. I remember visiting family out-of-state, like Florida and Pennsylvania, and envying their large houses and backyards, meanwhile, I lived in a small house that was more expensive to live in than theirs. When I asked about what they usually do on the weekends, however, my cousins would say it's always pretty boring because there's never anything to do there besides go to the mall, which is why they'd much rather live in NYC.

Though I was grateful that the city is full of hidden gems, and is never a dull place to be, I still had a desire to leave the nest, and go somewhere where I would feel, say, a culture shock. That's why for college I knew I wanted to dorm outside of the city at a SUNY rather than staying home and commuting there for school, like I would always do. Plus, MetroCards are always annoying to put money in.

I guess, in a way, coming to Stony Brook made me feel a little culture shock. There's less diversity than I'm used to, no small corner-store delis, and not a lot of people who speak with the New York slang that sounds like home to me. I don't even know where to get some good halal food around here. As for leisure activities, the city would have cool museums, art galleries, escape rooms, outdoor parks, and street performances; just a few experiences I definitely miss seeing now that I'm in college. My city friends back home would jokingly call me a "Long Islander" because I'm spending so much time trying to adjust to living in this peaceful environment.

While Stony Brook is a great escape from the hectic city life, I realized I could never get rid of the inner New York in me. It really shaped who I am and I notice it every day, even in the little things, like when I naturally walk fast, and someone asks me "Where are you rushing to go?" Of course, I'd have to explain to them that this is the pace I'm used to walking, thanks to the busy streets of Manhattan.

Overall, I'm glad that I physically came out of my comfort zone and experienced life outside of the city. It made me understand all the perks of living in the city when I hadn't realized them before and only noticed the cons. It also is refreshing to live amongst nature for a change, but in the end, the sight of tall buildings and close-knit neighborhoods will always look the most familiar to me.

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This Homecoming Season, Make The Decision Not To Drink And Drive

Making good decisions is just as important as having a good time.


For many schools, both college and high school, homecoming is coming up, which means students will go to football games, have bonfires, and yes, some of them might even drink.

While I am not saying that you shouldn't drink (unless you are underage then you definitely shouldn't), you should make good decisions if you choose to.

Always be sure to have a designated driver in your group, a person doesn't drink the whole night. They are the ones that will be the ones to drive and take their friends home. You also have the option of calling a Lyft or an Uber or you can even spend the night at the host's house. Whatever you do, do NOT drink and drive.

If you are over the age of 21 and are hosting guests who are underage, do not, I repeat DO NOT, give underage guests drinks. If you are caught providing alcohol to minors, not only is that underage person's life ruined, but yours will be as well. You will get a mark on your permanent record. Also, if they drive and get into an accident and the police found out you threw the party, they will arrest you.

If you are driving, there is a chance you will get into an accident, which may involve another person in another car. Cops can usually figure out if someone has been drinking when they are driving so never try to outsmart a cop if you are pulled over when you are driving.

Drinking and driving can cause injury and a lot of money to both the victim and driver, or even worse, death. Think about the people you will impact if you drink and drive: the victim, their families and your own family.

In fatal crashes in 2014, the highest percentage of drunk drivers was for drivers ages 21 to 24 (30 percent), followed by ages 25 to 34 (29 percent), and 35 to 44 (24 percent).

Let us be the generation that ends drinking and driving.



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The Dos And Don'ts For A Memorable High School Homecoming

The dress! The spirit week! The football game! Take advantage of it all before your high school days go away...


Ah, high schoolers, it's that time of the year again, homecoming! If your high school is anything like how mine was, you probably have a week of spirit celebrations leading up to the dance on Saturday, along with a football game under the lights the Friday night before. Here are quick and easy "do and don't" tips to remember as you are preparing, from the college student who has been in your shoes 4 times before

​DO: Prepare early!


As the saying goes, "the early bird gets the worm!" and in a large town like mine, that saying is especially true when it comes to something as simple as making a dinner reservation or picking out the perfect dress. Make sure your group is planned out a few weeks in advance so you can make your dinner plans early. And, dress-wise, the sooner you pick the dress, the more options there are in the store, and the more time you will have to make any alterations or adjustments.

DON'T: Wait till the last minute


You should make dinner reservations 2-3 weeks prior to homecoming to ensure getting a table at your first choice restaurant, especially with a large group. And when it comes to your dress, hit the shops about a month in advance! Sometimes you'll have to order your size from another store or get a few alterations, both could take a week or longer to get done. The more planned out you are in advance, the less stress you'll have the day of.

DO: The spirit days!

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Getting into the school spirit and dressing up in 80's gear or a tacky tourist outfit is what makes high school enjoyable, and it's even more fun if everyone goes all out on the theme! Besides, in college, you won't have these silly spirit weeks. Enjoy it while you can and wear that crazy Hawaiian shirt at least once before high school ends.

DON'T: Stay in your comfort zone

This is one piece of advice you can apply with many aspects in life, but during homecoming week specifically, this is your time to embrace the wacky outfits. It gives you an excuse to not care about what you are wearing as you walk the halls because everyone else will be dressed up too. Like I said, these homecoming weeks only happen during your four years of high school, celebrate it.

DO: Attend the football game!

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Now, I'll be honest on this one, my high school team was terrible. But, that didn't stop the students from cheering them on in the front row of the student section on Friday nights! The homecoming game is fun as they announce the homecoming court and your football team (hopefully) scores game-winning touchdowns.

DON'T: Complain

Take in the high school football moments as you are cheering the team on with your friends. If the weather is raining and cold, or if you are losing by what seems like a million points, remember that these are the "good ol' days" of high school that only happen once, so enjoy it while you can and stay for the game.

DO: Enjoy the dance!

The best part of the week itself. Getting ready with your best gal pals, feeling like a celebrity as you walk around a local park taking fun pictures with your friends, going out to a fun dinner with your group, and finally getting to the dance! The dance is 10x more fun if you get into the music and have a stress-free, carefree night with your friends.

High school homecomings may seem repetitive after a while, but trust me, when you look back on it, you will appreciate that time spent with your friends planning crazy spirit week outfits, and then getting glammed up on the day of the dance itself. Enjoy it while it lasts, it won't happen in college.

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