when you pray and nothing happens, Remain steadfast

when you pray and nothing happens, Remain steadfast

Let Him lead.


Almost every religious person has been in this situation: you pray for something, maybe even every night. It's something that you feel like needs to happen- gaining admission to a certain college, curing a family member's illness, or bettering a tough financial situation. All of these are very valid prayers, it's not like you're asking for the newest iPhone or those Gucci shoes that you HAVE to have. It's something that you know in the bottom of your heart needs to happen- but then it doesn't.

During this time, many people begin to lose faith in God or question His intentions, I know I did. Afterall, why would a God with pure intentions invoke such hardship?

This thought process enveloped the way I viewed religion; I never questioned the presence of God but I definitely questioned His intentions. I couldn't understand how a world with mass genocide, famine, and discrimination could ever involve the presence of a good God.

Now admittedly, my prayers were never that deep. Usually, it involved getting an A on a test or a family member getting better but every day I continued to put question into my faith. I began to develop a mindset that it's okay to be religious without remaining faithful. And that's where I was wrong.

Being religious without staying faithful is like driving without a license - it just doesn't work like that.

You can't test drive a car before putting in the work to earn your license and continuing to renew it. Similarly, you can't be faithful to God without continually renewing your faith in God.

You may not understand your intentions, I know I sure as hell didn't (oops, sorry). But that's OKAY. If my journey in finding my faith has taught me anything, it's that sometimes it's better just not to know- and that's coming from a Type-A girl who always has to be in control.

But seriously, it's okay to be lead blindly by God: to put your faith wholeheartedly in Him that you may not understand why something happened, but you know that God is intentional in his plan for you.

"Let us hold fast the confession of our hope without wavering, for He who promised is faithful."

-Hebrews 10:23

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12 Bible Verses For Faith In Hard Times

Remind yourself that God is always with you.

Lately, I have felt lost at what God wants for my life. Ever since I've come back to UWG everything has been horrible. It seems that I can't catch a break. I'm trying my best to focus on school, work, and extracurricular activities. But it's hard when I'm having issues with my apartment/roommates and knowing my family back home is struggling and needs many prayers. All, I keep thinking is maybe Carrollton isn't where I belong anymore. I've asked God if He can guide me in the right direction. Below, I have found Bible verses that have helped get me through these rough, past couple of weeks.

1. Isaiah 43:2

"When you go through deep waters, I will be with you."

2. Psalm 37:5

"Commit your way to the Lord. Trust in Him, and He will act."

3. Romans 8:18

"The pain that you've been feeling, can't compare to the joy that's coming."

4. Proverbs 31:25

"She is clothed in strength, and dignity, and she laughs without fear of the future."

5. Joshua 1:9

"Be bold. Be brave. Be courageous."

6. Ecclesiastes 3:1

"There is a time for everything and a reason for every activity under the heavens."

7. Isaiah 41:10

"Don't be afraid, for I am with you. Don't be discouraged, for I am your God. I will strengthen you and help you. I will hold you up with my victorious right hand."

8. Isaiah 66:9

"I will not cause pain without allowing something new to be born, says the Lord."

9. Psalm 91:4

"He will cover you with His feathers, and under His wings, you will find refuge; His faithfulness will be your shield and rampart."

10. Psalm 62:1-2

"My soul finds rest in God alone, my salvation comes from Him, He alone is my rock and my salvation."

11. Philippians 4:13

"I can do everything through Christ who gives me strength."

12. Jeremiah 29:11

"For I know the plans I have for you, plans to prosper you and not harm you, plans to give you hope and a future."

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Since When Did Having Your Life Figured Out Become An Expectation?

There's no timeline for life, and there shouldn't be.


Let's just cut to the chase. There shouldn't be an expected timeline of life that us, as humans, should be expected to follow. There isn't a certain age that we should be married by, or a time slot that we have to graduate in. It's just unrealistic because, well, life happens. And the majority of the time, we can't control it.

So then why does society pressure us into this schedule that seems to be looming over our heads? There's no consequence to not having children by 27, there's nothing wrong with having a steady significant other and not being engaged by 24. And really, nothing horrible is going to happen if your timeline doesn't match up with your best friend's.

A whole lot of things in life are out of our control. We don't know when we're going to meet "the one", or even if we already have. We don't know what job we will have after graduation, or if it will be a job we stay in for years to come. And guess what: it's okay. Because we have time.

One of the best lessons I have learned in my life is that we cannot control everything in our lives. We can't predict the future. Yes, you can feel as though you have your whole life planned out, but in the blink of an eye, everything can change. So moral of the story, don't stress about things that you can't control. Because all the time you spend stressing about them, is time that you could have spent enjoying the moment that you are in.

There's not a fairy that is going to come down and curse you for not having a job by 23, or forbid you from finding love because you haven't found it by 25. It's an unrealistic expectation. And guess what: life happens on its own, and we can't control all of it. Sometimes it may suck, and it can be entirely unexpected, but it's life. So put an anchor in the present, and have faith that you will figure it out.

Because you will.

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