The Power of Solitude

The Power of Solitude

Why isolation can lead to relaxation

As I've gotten older I've started to realize that the busier I get, the less time I have to focus on myself and do things that make me truly happy. I feel a constant pressure to always be around other people and make others feel appreciated and make sure that I am on top of all things that I juggle, so much so that I forget to take a second to focus on myself.

It's not until I travel home on break do I truly get to appreciate how relaxing and therapeutic alone time can be. To be in your own atmosphere with your own thoughts and just doing things that truly make you feel better. Getting your hair or nails done, spending an extra 30 minutes in the gym, cooking, reading a book, or just taking a nap. A simple stress release can change your entire mood. Sometimes you have to remove yourself from life and all that surrounds you to take a breath and move forward on a stronger foot.

Don't be afraid to be selfish from time to time. It is entirely okay to make sure that you are in the right mental state and that you are happy. Every other aspect of your life and every other relationship stems from loving yourself and being able to be happy with who you are and where you are in life.

"Now and then its good to pause in our pursuit of perfection and just be happy." This quote speaks volumes to the reality of life. We are all flawed as humans. You don't need to spend every waking moment aiming to achieve the unattainable. Be happy with what you have. Be grateful for the life you're able to live and just enjoy the moment. I promise its okay.

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50 Things To Be Happy About

It's the little things in life.

It is always easier to pick out the negatives in life. We tend to dwell on them and drown out the happy moments. I asked a friend to tell me something that made them happy. They sarcastically laughed at my question then thought about it for a minute. Nothing. But they could easily come up with things that made them unhappy. Then I read them my list, and they were smiling and laughing in agreement the whole time. There are so many more things to be happy and laugh about than we realize. After all- it's the little things in life that can mean the most! Here are 50 things that make me happy. What are your 50?

  1. The first warm day of the year
  2. Laughing so hard your abs ache
  3. Freshly washed sheets
  4. Looking through old pictures
  5. The smell of a coffee shop
  6. Eating cookie dough
  7. Reading a bible verse that perfectly fits your current situation
  8. Seeing someone open a gift you got them
  9. Eating birthday cake
  10. A shower after a long day
  11. Marking something off your to-do list
  12. Drinking ice cold water on a really hot day
  13. Dressing up for no reason
  14. Breakfast food
  15. Being able to lay in bed in the morning
  16. Finding something you love at the store
  17. And it’s on sale
  18. Cute elderly couples
  19. When a stranger compliments you
  20. Getting butterflies in your stomach
  21. Taking a nap
  22. Cooking something delicious
  23. Being lost for words
  24. Receiving a birthday card in the mail
  25. And there's money in it
  26. Finally cleaning your room
  27. Realizing how fortunate you are
  28. Waking up from a nightmare and realizing it wasn't real
  29. Fresh fruit
  30. Walking barefoot in the grass
  31. Singing along to a song in the car
  32. Sunrises
  33. Sunsets
  34. Freshly baked cookies with a glass of milk
  35. Summertime cookouts
  36. Feeling pretty
  37. Looking forward to something
  38. Lemonade
  39. Comfortable silences
  40. Waking up in the middle of the night and realizing you have more time to sleep
  41. Surviving another school year
  42. The cold side of the pillow
  43. The smell of popcorn
  44. Remembering something funny that happened
  45. Laughing to yourself about it
  46. Feeling weird about laughing to yourself
  47. Printed photographs
  48. Wearing a new outfit
  49. The sound of an ice cream truck
  50. Feeling confident
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Eat Your Protein, Your Body Needs It For Hunger To Be Satisfied

"If you're craving snack foods, your body doesn't have enough protein."


I often never considered how important it is to make sure one feeds their body the essential nutrients. Protein is on that list.

Even before I stopped eating meat, I know my body never received enough protein. I just didn't eat enough foods that contained protein. I never considered this to be much of a problem, until now.

Winter is rough. It's cold and dark because the sun hides away from the world more than usual. The lack of sunlight results in deficiencies in vitamin D and serotonin, necessary components of human health.

I chalked up fatigue and low moods as depressive symptoms. I wasn't concerned about my food cravings. However, when given the opportunity by my sister and my brother-in-law to try some bottles of their meal replacement drink, Soylent, I have different thoughts. They're always giving me food for free.

Soylent is a drinkable meal replacement containing adequate levels of vitamins, 20% protein, and 20% of one's daily nutrition values. As a college student who doesn't spend time cooking my own food or even take the time to count the nutrition values in the food I eat, it sounds like a good trade off.

What sticks with me is that it contains 20% protein.

I noticed that on a day I drink a bottle of Soylent, I have more energy, remain full for a while, and snack less often during the day. The first time I noticed this I immediately remembered a circumstance where I said to one my friends, "I want snacks. Let's get some snacks." She only responded with, "If you're craving snacks, your body doesn't have enough protein."

Most days I consume little to no protein and eat snacks late in the evening. When I do consume an adequate amount of protein, say from drinking a Soylent, I don't crave snack foods: chips, cookies, candy, etc. My friend's enlightening comments stands as a reminder in my brain.

Protein is more important than I thought it was. I've scheduled myself to order my own container set of Soylent.

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