The Power Of Music

The Power Of Music

An art form that continues to create

Music means something different to everyone who hears it. While the appreciation of all forms of art depends on taste, the listener's response to music is different than a viewer's response to a movie or a reader's response to a novel.

Most forms of media that we consume on a daily basis are formed around a story. When we like an article or book, we like the plot and the setting and the characters. The same goes for movie or television show, perhaps including our love for a specific actress or actor or even filming style. Our response to these outlets has to do with how well we relate to and connect with the characters created by the author or writer. Our appreciation stems from a human connection, the ability to take an unreliable world and bring it into our real lives.

With music, it is quite the opposite. While our affinity for the tune, beat and vocals play a role in how much we like a song, we often respond to music based on how it fits into our lives. We build an emotional connection to songs based on when and where we heard them. Instead of connecting to the characters or plot line of a book or movie, we connect the emotions of a song to the characters and plot line of our own lives.

Other art forms help to remove us from the ordinary. They create totally new universes that take us away from the mundane of our everyday lives. They are constructed in a way that most people will react to in the same way. For example, we all cry at the sad parts and laugh at the funny parts and love the good guys and hate the bad guys. But for music it is different. For some people a song can represent happiness because they heard it on a day when they got good news, for others, it can represent stress because they heard it on a day that they felt overwhelmed. The difference is that music is left open to the listener's interpretation.

The fluidity of music allows us to transform its meaning as we hear it, rather than transform our feelings as it plays for us. Rather than telling us how to feel, it gives us a melody and some lyrics, to set our feelings and lives to.

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I'm The Girl Without A 'Friend Group'

And here's why I'm OK with it


Little things remind me all the time.

For example, I'll be sitting in the lounge with the people on my floor, just talking about how everyone's days went. Someone will turn to someone else and ask something along the lines of, "When are we going to so-and-so's place tonight?" Sometimes it'll even be, "Are you ready to go to so-and-so's place now? Okay, we'll see you later, Taylor!"

It's little things like that, little things that remind me I don't have a "friend group." And it's been like that forever. I don't have the same people to keep me company 24 hours of the day, the same people to do absolutely everything with, and the same people to cling to like glue. I don't have a whole cast of characters to entertain me and care for me and support me. Sometimes, especially when it feels obvious to me, not having a "friend group" makes me feel like a waste of space. If I don't have more friends than I can count, what's the point in trying to make friends at all?

I can tell you that there is a point. As a matter of fact, just because I don't have a close-knit clique doesn't mean I don't have any friends. The friends I have come from all different walks of life, some are from my town back home and some are from across the country. I've known some of my friends for years, and others I've only known for a few months. It doesn't really matter where they come from, though. What matters is that the friends I have all entertain me, care for me, and support me. Just because I'm not in that "friend group" with all of them together doesn't mean that we can't be friends to each other.

Still, I hate avoiding sticking myself in a box, and I'm not afraid to seek out friendships. I've noticed that a lot of the people I see who consider themselves to be in a "friend group" don't really venture outside the pack very often. I've never had a pack to venture outside of, so I don't mind reaching out to new people whenever.

I'm not going to lie, when I hear people talking about all the fun they're going to have with their "friend group" over the weekend, part of me wishes I could be included in something like that. I do sometimes want to have the personality type that allows me to mesh perfectly into a clique. I couldn't tell you what it is about me, but there is some part of me that just happens to function better one-on-one with people.

I hated it all my life up until very recently, and that's because I've finally learned that not having a "friend group" is never going to be the same as not having friends.

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