When you picture a relationship, chances are you think of one of two things.

Option A: The couple that is overly opposed with each other. They are the gross PDA couple who make out in public and freak people out with how close they are. This couple refuses to see each others' flaws because they are so in love with the idea of their partner being flawless that they cannot see they are actually are human.

Option B: This couple fights all the time. They are bitter and mean to each other. Everyone wonders why they are even together. They are well aware of each others' flaws and will call them out for it constantly. It is honestly kinda sad to watch.

Neither of these relationships are healthy. They test the mental stability of both parties and really aren't good. If you are a normal person, you do not want either of these. A relationship should be full of love and support, but if your partner is not doing something right, or if there is an issue, you should be able to call them out on it. You should be able to have a productive, mature conversation about it. Of course, there are other things a relationship needs, so these are just general rules of thumb.

So, my question is: why do the two major political parties follow these same, dumb relationship trends? Being overly patriotic and unable to see the flaws with our country (there are many, many flaws) is just as bad as nitpicking every little thing that is wrong and ignoring the great things we have (we have many great things).

I am not telling you how to vote or who to support. I am not trying to sway you to or from one party. What I am doing is asking you a simple question: Option A or B?

But what if I told you there was a C?

Option C: This couple talks out their problems. They love and support their partner, but they know they have flaws. This couple knows each other and is stable in who they are.

Or in politics - bipartisanship

No relationship is perfect, and no political party will be either. Although, at some point, we need to take a step back. Political discourse, if it is healthy and maintained, can help move our nation forward. Debate is healthy. Being proud of where you are from and loving this country is crucial. You can love America but see her flaws. Hating her will get you nowhere, but neither will the egocentric mindset that has become popular. We need to encourage debate and protect the many blessings we have.