Political discourse in America has become far more polarized within recent years and has unfortunately been a catalyst for the destruction of many relationships. The holidays are recognized as a time for cheer and positivity, which is why often before a family gathering, many are urged to refrain from political conversations.

In fact, I have often been told, when around certain company, to not bring up specific topics that may strike a debate at the table.

To simply ignore what is going on in society for the sake of maintaining the peace is not something that is necessary.

While some family and friends may have different opinions, it is important to engage in conversation about timely issues in a respectful way. Emphasis on respectful.

Too often, individuals feel they have to "win" a debate or discussion and are quick to attack not only the opposing argument but the person who holds the beliefs. There is absolutely no need for any sort of disagreement in an attacking manner, moreover, no one has ever been persuaded by anything by someone attacking them and their argument in a way that just makes them feel dumb or insignificant.

This can be difficult as a young person, especially if your family has views and values that you feel are antiquated and unfair; however, take this as a chance to present your view in a way that makes it seem reasonable and appreciative of the fact not everyone is on the same page. Chances are that no matter what you say, they won't suddenly have a change of heart; however, increasing understanding is always a good place to start.

What is equally detrimental, in my mind, as attacking someone for their views, is gathering around the table and collectively attacking the "other" whether that be a political party or whatever the case may be. There is no personal growth when stuck in an echo chamber that merely validates views you hold true. It is easy to be caught up in the "chamber" when you and your family hold similar beliefs and begin to make comments such as "I can believe they think that," or the like, but try not to let that happen.

Admittedly, that is easier said than done.

I encourage everyone, students especially, to maybe go out of their comfort zone and touch on topics that are relevant to society and that you believe are important with their family and friends this holiday season.