Please Let Your Boyfriend Play Fortnite, They Are Still Your Boyfriend

Please Let Your Boyfriend Play Fortnite, They Are Still Your Boyfriend

Maybe open your mind and you could enjoy it too.
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I think we have all seen those girls on Twitter or other social media saying things about guys playing Fortnite. They want their man back, or they think that the game should end so they can spend time with their boyfriend. I have a whole new idea for you if you are one of these girls. Support them when they play, watch them play, or even play with them. Crazy idea, I know.

Personally, I have a love for video games. My Valentine's Day date with my fiancé consisted of us playing Rainbow Six Siege on Xbox for a while. After that, he got on his PC and started streaming more games that he loves. I watched his stream, and genuinely enjoyed it.

Now I know that not all girls love video games like I do or even care about them, but do you think that your man wants to listen to some of your dramatic stories or go with you to buy make up? No. Not usually. He does things with you and for you because he loves you. Maybe you should return the same favor.

Stop asking for Fortnite to give us our men back. Be glad that he can play with his friends and be happy. He can play, and still be around you. He can hang out with everyone at once, and that's pretty cool. Honestly, I would rather a guy be playing a game for a few hours than be somewhere with a girl.

He is not cheating on you. He is not lying to you. He simply enjoys something that you may not. Even when he plays these games, he is still yours. Let him be. They can play games and do things that they enjoy, so please let them.

If you are not someone like me who loves video games with a passion, then be understanding that he does. Stop complaining as if you have lost him. You have your hobbies, and Fortnite or even PUBG may just be his.

Please, just please, stop complaining on social media about a guys video game hobby. The game is fun. Maybe you should try giving it a shot. Try even watching and enjoying it. It may sound crazy, but it never hurts to just try. If you don't, you might just lose him.

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6 Important Must Knows For Dating Sassy And Sarcastic Girls

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Dating a girl with a big personality can be tricky. They are some of the most amazing girls but to keep them, one needs to understand them. Here are six important things you must be aware of before you give your heart to a sassy and sarcastic girl.

1. Stubborn

She is going to be the most stubborn creature you will ever meet. I say "creature" because she might actually scare you with how much she refuses to back down until you have full proof she is wrong. And if you can’t prove her wrong, just suck up your pride and let her be right or she’ll never quit. But just remember that she’s simply passionate about whatever it is and you should be proud of her for that.

2. Bluntness

She is going to be blunt. So be prepared to hear the truth. She isn’t going to care how mad you get, if you’re being rude, she won’t be afraid to put you in your place. If your choice of clothing isn’t matching, she’ll tell you. Whatever it is, she isn’t going to keep the truth from you. Sometimes it’s subtle, sometimes she’s just a little too straightforward.

3. Sensitivity

Be careful sometimes with your choice of words. Though she is blunt, she is also sensitive. Her sarcastic personality is sometimes just a defense mechanism because she fears opening up. She worries a lot and continues to ponder the things you say. Remind her she is loved.

4. Friends

She is going to have a lot more guy friends than she will have girl friends. Why? Because guys tend to find more humor in her sarcasm and don’t take it so personal, whereas other girls take it as she’s being serious and just rude. However, don’t be jealous because trust me, you’re 100 percent hers and those guy friends are just that — friends.

5. Insults

She’s not going to flirt with you by giggling and blushing and calling you cute. She’s going to call you an idiot and smack you across the shoulder or back because to her, that’s easier than being all giddy and speechless over how much she likes you. And even when she’s calling you names, which really is in all fun and games, she doesn’t mean it seriously, she’s actually just saying “I love you” in her own special language.

6. Shorty

If she’s short in addition to being sassy and sarcastic, you’re in for a big treat with her. She is not only going to be full of fast wit, but she is going to have so much spunk in her you won’t know what to do. She will be so feisty that she won’t be afraid of anything or anyone and you yourself won’t even know how to handle her. That’s what makes her special.

It takes a certain type of person to be able to give their heart to someone who can so easily break it with their strong headed personality. But a sarcastic and sassy girl is going to be the one girl who is going to love you with all that she has. Treat her right, and she’ll treat you right.

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To The Friend I Rarely See Anymore

I wish you nothing but the best.

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When we graduated high school, we thought it was the end for us. The distance would ruin us and we wouldn't be able to call ourselves friends. Thankfully, you were my rock for the first year of school. You were the one I turned to when the adjustment was hard or when I needed someone to talk to and just listen. We never lost our connection for a whole year. We proved that nothing could pull us apart no matter how far the distance, no matter the different schedules. We were still best friends.

Another summer came and we only got stronger. We went on countless beach trips, late night hangouts, and Starbucks runs. I didn't even think it was possible to be this much closer to you than we already were. If we weren't together, we would Snapchat or text to never stop the conversation.

Now summer ended, we didn't think twice about losing our connection this time. We had a bond stronger than anyone could fathom. We once again went our separate ways and kept our texting and Snapchat habits.

But something changed.

It must've been the comfort level of sophomore year. It must've been all the new friends we got. It must have been the boys who entered our lives. We don't speak anymore. I haven't seen you since winter break. I haven't texted you since New Year's Eve. Our connection, one that was once thought to be indestructible, came crumbling down with sophomore year. I am not going to lie, sophomore year was the best of my life, but I knew you were missing the whole time. It wasn't the same without you.

I'm not upset you chose to focus your time and life on your new boyfriend. I am happy for you. I am not upset you spend more time with your school friends. I am happy for you. I am not upset you don't text me anymore and killed our streak. I know you're living a happy life. And I am too.

We may have gone our separate ways like we never imagined, but I am happy you are finally happy. Don't forget for one second that I will always be here for you. I will still always answer your text. I will still always be your shoulder to cry on even when no one else is there for you. I wish you nothing but the best, and I hope you're doing ok.

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