Why Every College Kid Needs To Call Home

Why Every College Kid Needs To Call Home

Why a simple phone call home will change everything for the better.

Call home.

Regardless of what year of college you may be in, from Freshman all the way up to senior, you need to call home. College, for most, is a wonderful place. For four years you can shape and mold yourself into the person you want to be, and surround yourself with different types of people that hopefully aid you in that growth and that process; the unfortunate downside of college is that it is all too easy to lose your roots--to lose who you really are.

Humility is a lost art. If you asked me to describe what I was like before I came to Villanova, I could give you multiple strands of semi-true strands of information that could lead some to believe that, frankly, I was the freaking man. I could relay to you that I have had so many girlfriends; I could tell you that I was a phenomenal lacrosse player; I could tell you that I had so many friends, and that my trips through the halls of Chatham High School were so filled with “yo’s” and “hey what’s good”s that any normal, less-cool human being would have been entirely overwhelmed.

And, frankly, that is probably what I would tell you.

The temptation to surround yourself in these “half-truths” to hide things that may not always be too flattering is so strong, so commonplace, that it is almost inevitable to fall victim to it. No one is going to know about your addiction to World of Warcraft, or the immense trepidation you felt as you prepared for your first kiss, hug, or how your mom would have grounded you until the second Tuesday of next week if she ever caught you drinking. No one is going to know the real you.

This is why I say: call home.

Whether it be calling your parents and siblings or a weekly check-in with your friends from back home, a simple phone call can make all the difference. These people know you; these people can see through your half-truths and force you to present the real you! In a world where filters and photoshop appear to reign supreme, the genuine and the sincere are the ones who truly thrive.

You see, the people you truly connect with, the people you sincerely trust and deeply care about and for are not the ones who care about your goofy antics in High School; rather, your true friends are the ones who care about and support the things that you may not want people to know about. Although this idea may seem like something that needs to stitched onto a small pillow on your grandmother’s house, it is a message that has never been more desperately needed. Be genuine, be sincere, be you:

Call home.

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To The Grandmothers Who Made Us The Women We Are Today

Sincerely, the loving granddaughters.

The relationship between a grandmother and her granddaughter is something so uniquely special and something to be treasured forever.

Your grandma loves you like you are her own daughter and adores you no matter what. She is the first person you run to when you have a problem with your parents and she never fails to grace you with the most comforting advice.

She may be guilty of spoiling you rotten but still makes sure to stress the importance of being thankful and kind.

Your grandma has most likely lived through every obstacle that you are experiencing now as a young adult and always knows just exactly what to say.

She grew up in another generation where things were probably much harder for young women than they are today.

She is a walking example of perseverance, strength, and grace who you aim to be like someday.

Your grandma teaches you the lessons she had to learn the hard way because she does not want you to make the same mistakes she did when she was growing up.

Her hugs never fail to warm your heart, her smile never fails to make you smile, and her laugh never fails to brighten your day.

She inspires you to be the best version of yourself that you can be.

You only hope that one day you can be the mother and grandmother she was to you.

A piece of girl’s heart will forever belong to her grandma that no one could ever replace.

She is the matriarch of your family and is the glue that holds you all together.

Grandmothers play such an important role in helping their granddaughters to grow into strong, intelligent, kind women.

She teaches you how to love and how to forgive.

Without the unconditional love of your grandma, you would not be the woman you are today.

To all of the grandmothers out there, thank you for being you.


the loving granddaughters

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The Power of Good Roommates

Find the people who make you laugh til you cry and move in with them.


Going to college super far away can be hard especially when you do not know anyone going to that school. Picking people to live with is terrifying because you never know what is going to happen and everyone hears horror stories about roommates.

But when you finally get roommates who you are friends with, who you spend time with, laugh with and are overall great roommates, it is a totally different game.

I have had my fair share of roommates (living with six different people within three years of college) both pretty good and pretty crappy. It was not until recently I got three new roommates that I learned how powerful having great roommates can be.

I feel that I am a relatively easy going person so I have happily picked random roommates (all but once) but never really clicked with the people I was living with until now.

The three most recent roommates that I have have been by far the most influential and amazing roommates I've had yet. They support me, make me laugh and always include me with everything. There are days where we do nothing but lay on the floor and tag each other in videos on Facebook even though we are less than two feet away from each other.

But most importantly it amazes me how much good roommates can change your overall life.

I used to be a person who rolled through the motions, got stressed WAY too easily, was easily upset and would try way too hard to live a perfect life. But now I am more easy going, I laugh a whole lot more, cry a whole lot less and am comfortable going with the flow. And most importantly HAPPIER.

The very first night one of the new roommates moved in, she knocked on my door and asked me to go bowling with her and some friends (one which was another one of our roommates). We went and I didn't know anyone but had such a good time. Before this night I would sit in my room and not talk to any of my roommates because they were friends while I was not very close with them.

Flash forward a month to day…

Two of us were home and both wanted to go out as a group and both texted the other one to come home so we could all hangout. We are always laughing and smiling, telling jokes, checking in on classes or just how the day went. I used to never want to leave the house or my room but now I feel weird sitting in my room and not being with them.

The greatest part about meeting these people is that I know when we all move out of the apartment in a month I will still have great friends.

You may have roommates that you hate, you may have roommates that you "live with" and you might have roommates that you love. There is so much power in finding people you click with, so I challenge you to find those people who make you want to dance around the living room and laugh until you cry.

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Isabel Parent

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