11 Unspoken Perks Of Being An Ambivert
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11 Unspoken Perks Of Being An Ambivert

Being both an introvert and an extrovert comes with its benefits.

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11 Unspoken Perks Of Being An Ambivert
Maggie Joyce

What is an ambivert? Love parties, but also love solitude? Do you find yourself scoring ‘slim-to-no preference’ on extroversion over introversion on the Myers-Briggs personality test? You may be an ambivert - a lovely combination of introvert and extrovert.

1. The best of both worlds

You get to live the sociable life of an extrovert, and the quiet life of an introvert, whenever you please. There’s always a healthy balance of socializing for you.

2. You can please any crowd

Have that one friend who can’t be bothered to go out? They’ll love to hang out with you because they know they can rely on you for a quiet, relaxing night in. How about that chatty group that will say 23 ‘goodbyes’ before actually getting out the door? They’ll always have you tag along – you’re a perfect addition to the never-ending conversation! You’re equipped for any situation.

3. You can be one or the other whenever it suits you

Your friends understand when you need that introvert ‘me-time’. You can also use your extroverted-ness to charm people when you need to.

4. You have a wide array of people in your life

Along with the perks of number 1, your friendship circle is fairly diverse personality-wise. You have an extended circle and close-knit circle.

5. You’re prepared for any situation

When life throws you those unexpected and sometimes-unpleasant curveballs, you’ve got it covered. You can detect the nature of most situations quickly, and adjust your attitude accordingly.

6. You’re the voice of reason

The polarization of extroverts versus introverts sometimes leaves little room for compromise. You’re spontaneous, but you’re also cautious. Having that middle ground is key to avoiding both impulse decisions and missed opportunities.

7. Everyone comes to you for advice

This is simply a product of being the voice of reason! Because you have a taste of both worlds, you always come to your friends with a bit of perspective – even if it may be something they don’t want to hear.

8. You always level out the social scale

If you’re in a group of louder, extroverted people, you’ll only speak when necessary. If you’re among a quieter crowd, you’ll find ways to spark up a conversation. You balance every group well.

9. You’re more in tune with yourself and with others

Knowing your own emotions helps you better understand those around you. You’re observant and introspective. You pick up on signs and social cues that may go unnoticed by others. This helps you go into situations with a clear mind and open heart.

10. You’re a leader and a team player

Having the skills to lead and be a part of a group assists you greatly in the professional world.

11. You’re unapologetically you

Being comfortable on both sides of the spectrum makes you unique. You are your own person and you don’t need the help of anyone else to appreciate that.

If you relate to any or all of these traits, welcome to the world of ambiverts. Be a proud part of the 68%. Embrace your diverse (and natural) social tendencies!

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